By Sola Omoniyi Omoyajowo

Action proves who someone is, words just prove who they pretend to be…

It has never been recorded that mere words and promises kept a a relationship.

But action serves as a fertile land where LOVE and Marriage germinate.

If someone is really into you, you don’t have to keep begging for calls, text, or to spend time, the person will do it if you’re a priority.. It just flow naturally. Forced love is not love. If it takes only you to tango, then you’re in the wrong place. You can’t be in a relationship and be dating yourself. Love is a place of solace, not a place of hurt.

You struggle in a relationship, when purpose is fake..

Because every serious date will eliminate fear, doubt, confusion and stagnation…

You don’t remind a serious minded man ” when are you coming to see my parents, what are we doing or Where is the relationship leading us to?

No! When purpose is real; marriage becomes a priority.

The best thing to spend on your relationship is ” Time” If you can’t invest your time, you can’t grow your relationship.

When One Is Really Into You

~ Whosoever you’re begging for attention and care is not dating you.

~ If he/ she doesn’t invest time and attention, he/she doesn’t have plans for the future..

~ If his words does not correspond with his actions, he remains fake..

~ if the foundation is built on lies, such relationship can’t stand the test of time..

~ If there is no care/ giving, such relationship should be questioned..

~ If your zeal to build your relationship is taken for desperation…
( There is no future with the person)

• No matter how you pet a heart that’s not ready, you will remain a nagging woman..

~ If you’re begging for communication; you’re dating who is not dating you..

If you beg for love, you will also need constant begging to maintain it.

Be mindful of who you invest your time and resources on..

When someone treats you like an option, kindly remove yourself from the equation.

When someone is not into you, don’t force it to work. The wrong person will make you feel like you’re asking for too much. No matter how good your intentions are, the wrong person will always make you feel like you’re the problem. The wrong person will make you question your worth. The signs are always there, do not let emotions blind you. If the relationship is not working, don’t be the last person to leave.

Love is wise!!!