Do not force yourself in to a place you are not welcomed.
WHEN A PERSON ISN’T INTERESTED IN YOU EMOTIONALLY.
1) They hardly call, return your calls or message you
So you keep calling and they miss most of the calls and don’t return the ones they miss, always giving you excuses, and you keep calling, I salute your persistent nature but If they don’t call or return your calls, chats, messages on several occasions, clearly they are avoiding you.
Let them be. It’s not you, it’s them. They aren’t interested.
2) They clearly say “I am not interested” to you a lot of times.
They tell you things like “I really like you as a brother/sister”
But… “I’m not interested in you”
Although to guys, some ladies can deliberately do that just to prove hard, know when to draw the line and accept the truth once and for all.
3) They hardly talk about themselves, their plans, or secret.
I’ll kindly advise you to re-write your mission statement if you are the only one doing the talking all the time. They may be indirectly telling you to move on.
When they keep replying you in monologue
You: How are you doing
Him/Her: Fine
You: How was your day
Him/Her: Fine.
Conversation that looks like you’re forcing them to chat or talk to you.
Please, move on.
4) They can’t stand your presence.
When you notice that each time you meet or bump into one another, they tend to dismiss you immediately with a lot of excuses.
“I got to go, we’ll see later” when they just met you
“I was actually on my way to…”
“Please we’ll talk later….. “
They don’t seem to enjoy your company and are alway in a hurry to get out of your presence, because it doesn’t interest them.
5) They don’t bother about your life.
When they don’t ask about your well being or care about what’s happening to you..
She never compliments you like “your top is cute”.
He does not ask how your day went, how your family are doing, your job amidst others.
You tell them about your plans and they forget about it immediately.
Don’t blame them. You’re not just a priority to them..
6) They are not emotionally available
You know that awkward feeling you get when someone doesn’t seem to be interested in connecting to you emotionally.
They are just cold.
Being with them is the real definition of boring and they seem to intentionally make it that way.
You’re the one asking questions and answering them at the same time.
7) They don’t find your jokes funny
When someone loves you, they’ll even laugh at your dry jokes that no one else would laugh at.
Imagine cracking a joke, something you consider to be extremely funny just to lighten up a moment and you’re the only one laughing at it.
Then she/he looks at you like “why is this one laughing? Joke that is not even funny”.
He/She can be mean just to play hard to get, test and offset/upset you or push you away because your feelings mean nothing to them., .
8) They cancel every time
. They keep canceling plans you already agreed to at the last minute, dates and meetings end up with “I’m sorry, I won’t be able to make it”
They make no effort to keep up their appointments with you.
9) They never initiate.
You always suggest and initiate everything
If you don’t call them, they don’t call you.
If you don’t text them, they don’t text you.
If you don’t ask for a date, they don’t.
They can go days without hearing from you or talking to you.
You have to demand for their attention before you ever get it.
You keep initiating everything that happens between the both of you. It’s a sign they are not with you.
Do not beg to be loved.
Do not force yourself in to a place you are not welcomed.
Go where you are CELEBRATED, not where you are TOLERATED.
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