Talking about having a good partner for intimate relationship or marriage, it is now very hard for men with great dreams, but without physical cash to throw around. We suffer more rejection from women than any other group of men now living. The reason is very simple; many women nowadays do not have faith in what they cannot see. If they cannot see it; it does not exist, no matter what you say to prove its existence.
Invite a woman to your house; the first thing she does from the street is to measure you up financially. When she gets to your house, she scans it; and if what she is seeing does not suggest that you can take care of her present needs, she begins to act cold. The same woman who had agreed to a relationship with you, tells you she wants to think about it. Once she leaves, just forget it, she is not coming back.
This condition is caused by a few other things, but all of them are connected to the abuse of selfishness; willingness to get without giving. Many of these women are not impressed by your tall dreams, visions or how intelligent you are; they are not willing to give anything. They just want you to make the money from wherever you can and take care of their present needs. Nothing more.
They are liabilities, and dreamers like myself do not want them. I have a way of scanning women like that and send them away without looking back. If you do not do so, they are most likely to keep telling you they are interested in NO-SEX relationship for one religious reason or another. They know exactly what they are doing. It is not really about sex! They are not as holy as they make it look.
The truth is that they see sex as giving, and they do not want to give before trying to get, so once they perceive from their blind eyes that you do not have the material things to give them, they use sex as an alibi. They make you believe they do not like sex, but it is a lie. The truth is that you are just not rich enough for them, and they know without sex, you will eventually leave.
I have put many women to this test, and none of them have passed it. It is difficult for men like me with big dreams nowadays! Especially those who will of us who will rather invest our little cash in our dreams than spend it on different women and material belongings.
We look for help-meet; women that we can, in the future, make the CEO of the companies in our minds, not Slay Queens or parasites that we have around. Unfortunately for us, there are no too many help-meet around; women are everywhere, but there are no wives.
For a man like me to marry a woman that does not have a vision or believe in my vision enough to remain with me when the going gets tough is a disaster; it means building a dream and marrying a partner that will destroy it.
This is a form of encouragement to men like me out there. There are still good women; do not give up your search. There are still great women out there, they are just not plenty, but you can still get yours.
Do not give up as you do not give up on your dreams!
Good luck to you.Soul’e Rhymez
