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Why Nigeria Needs a Revolution By Sola Omoniyi Omoyajowo

REVOLUTION. According to Google Trending search analysis, the word Revolution became the most-searched-for word in Nigeria on 5August; with Oyo State leading the number of searches, followed by Port-Harcourt. Meanwhile, the ruling elite swung in with all the media apparatus available to them, to malign, confuse and scandalise the word revolution.

For now, the ruling class can breathe a sigh of relief, but all of its intelligent elements know that nothing has been solved. Nigerian society is at a complete dead end. Revolution is not merely desirable, it is a necessity. Just like the ruling class is clearly preparing itself for what is to come, so should the Marxists. Therefore, as we await the fast-approaching social explosion, it is very important that we draw crucial lessons from this particular event, so as to adequately prepare ourselves for the future.

Why do revolutions occur in some countries but not others?

Traditionally, social scientists have looked at factors such as a country’s economic situation or the strength of the government in power to predict where revolutions will happen and why.

However, such methods have not been very successful in predicting revolutions. For example, virtually no one predicted the “color” revolutions that took place in Eastern European countries in the early 2000s.

Eric Selbin, a political science professor and University Scholar at Southwestern University who studies revolutions, believes social scientists have been overlooking a key indicator: the power of cultural factors such as storytelling and the use of symbolism.

We support a call for revolution. As Marxists we also call for revolution, but we understand that no one can fix a date for a revolution. In particular, that is true for a small organisation with very little support amongst the working masses. Calling for a revolution under such circumstances ends up being pure adventurism, as the ground had not been prepared. A call for revolution that has not been systematically prepared for beforehand can lead to frustration among a certain layer of the youth who are looking to the Sowore movement, as we saw in the last election outcome which led to demoralisation of a certain layer of youths who are looking up to Sowore. This time around the disappointment could be even bigger when the young people around Sowore realise that a Revolution is not taking place. Even worse, however, is that this call has completely isolated some of the most radical youth from the broad layers of the masses and put them at the mercy of the state apparatus which can now come down heavily on them. As Alan Woods explains: “The masses will move exactly when they are ready, not a minute earlier nor a minute later”. No doubt, the situation is fast changing in a revolutionary direction. Nonetheless, to confuse the first month of pregnancy with the ninth is a serious mistake, it will not lead to birth, but painful abortion. Under no circumstances must we substitute our consciousness for the consciousness of the masses. Masses learn from their day-to-day experiences. The task of the Marxists is to follow this process and recognise when it has come to a critical point. In the meantime we must prepare the best elements amongst the youth and the workers by educating them in the ideas and methods of revolutionary Marxism. Revolution cannot be sucked out of one’s thumb. It comes about when the masses have reached a critical point and are ready to move. And it also requires a revolutionary leadership which has won the confidence of the wider masses.
We should recall that immediately after the January 2012 mass protest, the word revolution became a household word. A wing of the Nigerian ruling elite cynically latched on to this and echoed the word along with the masses. It was only in 2014 that Tinubu (one of the more astute strategists of the ruling elite), eventually concretised the kind of revolution they were describing, he said it was a “Common Sense Revolution”. This shows that the very word revolution on its own can be made into an abstraction. What sort of revolution we are waging is the key. Without very clear, sharp and bold slogans, based on class differences, based on the idea that the rich and powerful must be expropriated, those mobilising for the revolution may find it difficult to break the strong barriers of religion and ethnicity which, in the final analysis, are the shields the Nigerian ruling elite always hide behind. Only a socialist revolution, that tackles the concrete questions of jobs, wages, housing, education and healthcare, can overcome the web of contradictions that crisscross Nigerian society; and unite the workers, peasants and youth of all ethnicities. The most fundamental problems of this society cannot be solved on the basis of capitalism. This has to be boldly stated; the vague call for “Revolution” is what gave room for Atiku and other PDP thieves to sign-in to this ongoing call. If there was a call for a genuine revolution – that is, one which actually threatened the rule of the capitalist class in society – we would immediately see the ruling elite pack themselves on one side and we would see a united force of the oppressed on the other side. It is also revealing that orange is the official colour of this so-called revolution, a colour which was used by the right-wing and CIA supported forces to lean on mass movements against the government in Ukraine, which at that time was close to Putin’s Russia. As we know, the result of the Orange Revolution in Ukraine was far from the downfall of the capitalist system in that country. On the contrary, it merely strengthened one wing of the oligarchy: the pro-Western wing.
If there is one important lesson we can draw from all the recent revolutions of the masses, from the Egyptian Revolution of 2011, the Bukinababes Revolution of 2014, up to the recent Sudanese Revolution of this year, it is that the problem of leadership of the revolution has not been solved. The masses will move when they are ready to move. That should be far from being our main concern. After all, Nigerians massively moved heroically in 2012, but the issue everywhere is, if they move, is there a revolutionary leadership to lead them to revolutionary victory? By revolutionary leadership we do not mean a Messiah, a hero-worshipped individual. By leadership in the present epoch, we mean revolutionary organisation: the organisation of cadres, who are trained in the Marxist tradition and Marxist methods, who have well prepared themselves in organisation, for eventual breakout of class conflict between the haves and have-nots. As Trotsky once remarked: “The crisis of humanity can be reduced in the final analysis, to the crisis of leadership of the working class”.
This necessary revolutionary organisation is still very weak nationally. Meanwhile, the ruling elite has less and less room to manoeuvre faced with the rising anger of the masses. This will lead to an extremely turbulent period, with many ebbs and flows. The masses will have to go through many painful experiences and test out many accidental figures and organisations on their path. We also want to see an end to the present corrupt regime, but we are not prepared to take part in fooling the masses that there is another kind of capitalism, a clean, uncorrupt capitalism that operates in the interests of the working masses. No such capitalism can ever exist. So long as you have capitalism, you will have rich and poor, bosses and workers, oppressors and oppressed.

This lack of a working-class based revolutionary socialist leadership is the main reason why the revolutionary process in the next period will have a prolonged character. There will be many starts and stops, periods of joyous advance and painful retreat, highly inspiring victories and demoralising defeats. But through it all, the workers will learn, and we will steel and expand our forces. We must prepare the rank and file for this, because it is on this that the real success can be won.

On Saturday 27 July, the African Action Congress (AAC), led by former presidential candidate Omoyele Sowore, called Nigerians to a revolution, to take place on 5 August. This has predictably gained the attention of the ruling class as well as a layer of radicalised youth.

Posing the need for revolution, however, has to be done in a serious manner. It is also important to understand what a revolution is. In recent years we have had several examples of so-called “revolutions”, which have not led to the desired intentions of the masses. Indeed, we have seen “revolutions” that have in effect been their opposites, achieving nothing for the working people and merely benefitting one wing of the ruling class. So let us look at what we mean by revolution.

A genuine revolution does not merely change the faces of those in government, it radically changes the power set up, not just political power but economic power. It uproots the economic system, placing the material resources of the country under the control of those who actually produce the wealth, i.e. the workers and peasants.

Leon Trotsky, who led a genuine social revolution in 1917, posed a fundamental question: what is a revolution? And he answers the question in the following way:

“The most indubitable feature of a revolution is the direct interference of the masses in historical events. In ordinary times the state, be it monarchical or democratic, elevates itself above the nation, and history is made by specialists in that line of business – kings, ministers, bureaucrats, parliamentarians, journalists. But at those crucial moments when the old order becomes no longer endurable to the masses, they break over the barriers excluding them from the political arena, sweep aside their traditional representatives, and create by their own interference the initial groundwork for a new regime.”

And he continues: “The history of a revolution is for us first of all a history of the forcible entrance of the masses into the realm of rulership over their own destiny.”

Nigeria minimum wage strike Image Solidarity Centre
Nigeria needs a revolution, however, this call must be made in a serious manner and a mass movement built for / Image: Solidarity Centre

All of the conditions for such an event are being prepared in Nigeria today. In its editorial of 13 November 2018, Punch newspaper gave a graphic picture of the situation faced by Nigerian youth:

“In the corridors of power, there is no lack of awareness of the reality; doing the right thing to change the narrative, however, is an insurmountable hurdle. The forum at which Adesola spoke was a job creation policy initiative jointly organised by the ministry and the International Labour Organisation in Abuja; a few days earlier, in Ibadan, Oyo State, Osinbajo had bemoaned the prevailing high rate of teen joblessness and declared that only through job creation for its youths could a nation truly develop. Question is: since this administration took office 41 months ago, what is its record in job creation and productivity?

“Very dismal. Indeed, so poor that youth unemployment rose to 52.65 per cent by Q4 2017, from 49.7 per cent in the preceding quarter, which translates to 22.64 million persons aged between 15 and 35 years’ old who were either jobless or underemployed, according to the National Bureau of Statistics. Its data showed that 7.9 million jobs were lost January 2016 to September 2017; some four out of 10 Nigerians are jobless or underemployed; …The gravity of the problem is revealed in the reality that over 54 percent of Nigeria’s rising population of 197 million are below age 35.”

According to an estimate, 500,000 fresh graduates from our institutions of higher learning join the market yearly, and this unfortunate situation only keeps getting worse. A week hardly passes without news of suicide among the youth. Most unfortunately, the rate of suicide is higher among the Higher Institution students, especially the about-to graduate among them. As they look at the future, rather than feel a sense of relief that passing out of school is supposed to give, the fear and frustration only increase as they approach the end of their academic life.

Social explosion building
The youth, making up the majority of the population, are the spearhead of this process at this particular time. But as all experience shows, the youth are merely the most sensitive indicator of wider social processes. Throughout Nigerian society today, tensions are reaching boiling point, as the masses become increasingly desperate. The Nigerian ruling class is not only incapable of providing even the bare necessities of life for the majority of the population, it is constantly pushing the masses even below their present barbaric living conditions. The ruling class is aware that the present conditions could lead to a social explosion.

Sowore threw the “#RevolutionNow” slogan into the public, the chains of drama that followed should not be a major surprise to anyone. Sowore did not stop at mere sloganeering, he went ahead to declare a day for the commencement of “Nigeria Revolution”, and 5 August was announced as the day.

The response of the Government revealed just how weakened the Buhari regime has become after about four years of continuous privatisation and commercialisation, and the attendant widening of the gap between the rich and poor. This regime’s social base has been significantly eroded. The regime is unstable and can feel the anger of the masses that pervades the land. The regime feared that Sowore’s call would gain an echo, in particular amongst the angry youth around the country.

A genuine revolution does not merely change the faces of those in government, it radically changes the power set up, not just political power but economic power. It uproots the economic system, placing the material resources of the country under the control of those who actually produce the wealth, i.e. the workers and peasants.

Leon Trotsky, who led a genuine social revolution in 1917, posed a fundamental question: what is a revolution? And he answers the question in the following way:

“The most indubitable feature of a revolution is the direct interference of the masses in historical events. In ordinary times the state, be it monarchical or democratic, elevates itself above the nation, and history is made by specialists in that line of business – kings, ministers, bureaucrats, parliamentarians, journalists. But at those crucial moments when the old order becomes no longer endurable to the masses, they break over the barriers excluding them from the political arena, sweep aside their traditional representatives, and create by their own interference the initial groundwork for a new regime.”

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Pastor Allegedly Turns His Wife To Punching Bag ~ PeakNews

A man who is said to be a Pastor and a Senior lecturer at Lagos State Polytechnic, Mr Adewale Arowosegbe has allegedly beat his wife in Ikorodu Lagos State.

From a post obtained from popular blog, instablog9ja, it reads “This man is a pastor and senior lecturer at Lagos state Polytechnic, his name is Adewale Arowosegbe and he has turned his wife, Fadeke into punch bag.

It was gathered that Adewale and Fadeke has been married for over 20 years and are blessed with four children.

The latest incident happened on 1st September 2020 at their residence in Ikorodu, when his wife returned home with a female friend and the man Adewale called her to his room to lament that she’s useless and doesn’t befit his status considering that Fadeke is not educated.

This broke his wife, Fadeke heart as she used to own a shop at Palmgrove, Lagos,until she broke her leg so there is little to what she could do to raise money.

It was gathered that this man uses this to maltreat his wife. She has reported his abusive behavior to her family members and the police and she said she’s enduring the brutality and suffering because of her children.

Hoping the Lagos State Polytechnic Authorities will do something about the issue.

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YOU CAN MARRY EARLY AND MARRY WELL.

During courtship or relationship, every man and woman reveals their true character, they consciously or unconsciously show you what your married life will be through their behaviour. Unfortunately some of us fail to notice this exposure because of our unbridled emotions, even when we notice, we ignore the warning signs hoping that we can manage or it will get better with time, hoping the person will change for good after marriage.

You can’t marry a hot tempered lady, unless you want to die an untimely death. Some of us heard the judgement passed on the wife who stabbed her husband to death in 2017. She was sentenced to death by hanging.

A lot of campaign has gone in favour of women against domestic violence which is very good! Over the years, women have been seen as weakling who can’t hurt a soul, few women are like that! I wish men can bury their ego and also come out against domestic violence! Countless men have been brutally murdered, maimed, destroyed and reduced to nothing by angry, hot tempered, short tempered women! Even the holy book is against anger. It was clearly stated that anger reside in the blossom of a fool.

8 REASONS PEOPLE CLOCK 40+ AND STILL REMAIN SINGLE

It’s good to marry early, the Bible is full of scriptures referring to “the wife of thy youth”, “the children of thy youth”.

Sometimes it may not be one’s fault that they end up marrying later than they envisaged, life can act unpredictably at times, but not in all cases, sometimes we are the ones who by our own actions prolong our single hood.

So I’ve complied some reasons why this is so..

1) BEING TOO PICKY

Some bachelor’s have ladies around them who would gladly say yes to their proposal, but see how they pass over each one.

Jane? she talks too much,
What of Ruth? she’s too quiet
What of Oziegbe? she’s too local
What of Esther, she’s too black,

And you are now 39, we hail you Sir,
Grand Bachelor of the Order of the Niger (GBON)

Some ladies are too picky, all the Men God has sent their way, they have had issues with each one, this one is not this, that one is too that.

What do they now want?

He must be Tall, Dark and Handsome, romantic, have six packs, drive a Mercedes Benz, be able to spend N500k in one sitting,
Naira loaded and tongue speaking godly yahoo boy.
Where will you see that combination in one Man?

Keep searching for the Perfect Spouse.

2) BAD CHARACTER.

Some ladies are proud, rude, harsh, and insolent.

Some are snobbish, they will look down on you if you don’t have a car, forgetting that tomorrow is pregnant.
Others have bad mouth, before you say one they’ve said fifty, if they decide to wash you down, you will understand that it was Eve that ate fruit and remain for Adam and not vice versa

The Guys who would have proposed have all ran away out of fear and for their own safety.

Any Relationship they manage to enter doesn’t last more than one year before the guy runs for his life.

Some brothers nko,
pride too is doing them, no lady is good enough for them, many of them are so full of themselves, selfish, self centered and stingy.
Any girl they date, they will chase her away with their lack of security and African Man attitude. Submission fanatics.

Dear Singles, Work on your Character.

3) PLAYING GAMES

Some ladies, when they are 20,23,25, they will be doing “I’m still very young”, they will be jumping from Man to Man, having multiple lovers, running after every guy with a car key,
pursuing sugar Daddies that will never marry them, instead of settling down with one and starting a family, because the suitors are queueing up they feel it will be so forever,

Before they know it, they have clock 30. Every man knows they want marriage now and will start using “I will marry you” to knack their kpekus and waste more of her time till he finally dumps her.

Men start looking past them, the throng of suitors reduce, and by that time they will now become emergency Prayer Warriors, running from Winners to Redeemed looking for miracle Husband, attending crusades with amazing themes
“I must marry this year” “who took my husband?”

Same things for the guys.

Young and forming Play boys, Busy chasing small small girls, strafing and dumping every girl under skirt and trousers, by the time you know it you have given yourself a bad Rep, no Relationship you enter lasts, they start finding it hard to keep a stable Relationship long enough to lead to Marriage because of their promiscuity.

4) KARMA

What you sow you will reap, you can’t escape it.
Some ladies have broken homes and Marriages, while Some guys have broken several hearts, used girls and have countless abortions to their name.

Curses are flying over and around them from heart broken girls and boys from their past.

5) VILLAGE PEOPLE

Except you don’t believe in the supernatural, even if you believe it or not, things are happening.

It’s the reason I feel for People who are not Prayerful, there are people, beautiful, well behaved, financially okay, but nobody wants to marry them, any relationship they enter scatters for strange reasons.

Some persons feel that there’s no need to pray when it comes to Marriage, after all Jeffrey that was a chronic womanizer back then in school got married early and has 3 kids already, forgetting that we all come from different families, have different graces and face different battles.

(6) CULTURE

The younger one can not marry before the elder one and elder one is kuku having problems getting a partner.

The Man must be ready to buy 500 tuber of yams, 3 sewing machines, 30 bags of rice, one suzuki motorcycle for the Bride’s mother,…………………….. List goes on

It was that list that drove Segun, Paul, & John away, you are now 30 and now that same list is still being presented to Abraham.

You must only marry from our village.
You must only marry from our tribe.
You must…….
You must not……..

Parents and Traditions have actually had a way of keeping many eligible Spinsters at home ageing away.

(7) DATING DEFECTIVE PEOPLE

Defective People are People who date for fun, they are not after Marriage, they come for s€x and to kill time, nothing else. And you who thinks s3x is an audition for dating and do not want to lose them, you start using your body to sustain the relationship.

Defective People are time wasters, they can date you for Ten years and then one day wake up and break up with you because you pressed toothpaste from the middle.

By the time you date one guy or girl like that for three years, the Relationship breaks down, you enter another relationship, another two years goes down the drain.

Then you enter another one, let’s say one year,, please, how old are you self?
Are you immortal?
You are olding, but you don’t know.

Better relax and prayerfully look for ONE serious minded person to date who is tired of getting it wrong and wants to get it right.

it’s not by QUANTITY but by QUALITY. Dating is not a social experiment. Your heart is not a shopping mall. Guard it with all diligence.

(8) PLAYING HARD TO GET

Some ladies, fall sheepishly and so easy for those sugarcoated guys who will only use them and waste them.
Fine son of God will be giving them signal they will be doing Shakara, very soon fine son of God will move on to a sister that is ready and cooperative, they will say “ordinary hard to get that i just did oh, he couldn’t even wait, he’s not serious” not knowing they are the ones that is not serious.

Sisters, calm down,
“what shall it profit thee to do all the shakara in the whole World and lose thy suitors?”

HARD to get has made some sisters IMPOSSIBLE to Find.


Dear Bachelor and Spinster,
Yes, Be careful so in an attempt to marry early you do not marry Wrongly, However, be not deceived,
“You can marry Early and Marry Well.”

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DON’T MARRY HIM IF YOU VALUE YOUR LIFE! ~ Sola Omoniyi

This statement “All men are cheat” has made a lot of women settle for less & still settling for less. All men are not cheat. Men are not polygamous in nature. Cheating is a thing of choice & lack of commitment. A man cannot give you in marriage what he didn’t practice in his dating relationship. If he is not a faithful boyfriend, marriage will not make him a faithful husband. Stop fooling yourself!

Men cheat because they think they can get away with it and because they’re willing to let themselves get away with it. Cheating is, strangely, a behavior that can make it hard to be a good father and husband, but also a behavior that isn’t actually correlated with familial love or care.

You can’t change a cheating guy! You are not God, neither are you the Holy Spirit!

You can’t handle a cheating man, no, you can’t! A lot of ladies have asked me some ridiculous questions that makes me wonder if the brain in their skull is 100%.

🌀 “He has different chats & pictures of other ladies on his phone but I still love him”. No, you are still stupid!

🌀 “He keeps talking to his EX and does not care about me.” No! You don’t care about your own mental health, talk less of your life!

🌀 “A lady always come to spend weekend at his house, I have talked to him, begged him to know if I offended him, he says no but didn’t change, what should I do?” Have a brain reset!

🌀 “Each time I tell him to stop being close to his EX, he gets angry and abuses me but I love him so much, how can I change him?” You are the one who needs a change! Your self esteem is almost down to zero and your high level of tolerance for abuse is amazing!

√ The lady who stabb€d her husband in 2017 did so when she discovered he was cheating! She ran mad, lost her senses and drew cold blood out of him, now she is losing her life or has lost her life after she has been sentenced to death by hanging, you don’t want to get to that point!

√ A woman cried out for help on social media after she discovered her husband had married another woman without her knowledge and had children for him. She asked people to pray for her as she was literally losing her senses. She was fast becoming a psychiatric case!

√ Another woman murdered her own husband and buried him under a bridge somewhere so no one will know. His adulterous life style pushed her to kill him.

√ One woman couldn’t take it anymore and sliced off her husband’s pen!s!

√ Another woman poured hot boiling oil on her husband while on sit in the toilet. The list goes on and on…

This statement “All men are cheat” has made a lot of women settle for less & still settling for less. All men are not cheat. Men are not polygamous in nature. Cheating is a thing of choice & lack of commitment. A man cannot give you in marriage what he didn’t practice in his dating relationship. If he is not a faithful boyfriend, marriage will not make him a faithful husband. Stop fooling yourself!

Cheating is traumatic & disrespectful! A lot of men don’t know or understand this! If they do and really understand the consequences, no man will ever cheat on his wife!

You can’t handle adultery! It all starts from courtship/relationship, but a lot of people are blind by the stupidity they call love, get married and start crying “wolf!”

A man who can’t control his p€nis when he sees you and must have s€x either by consent or rape will have affairs like crazy in marriage! You are not the reason he couldn’t control his erection, he has serious issues with self control and will have s€x with your friend, sister or girls in the neighborhood when your are sick and can’t have s€x, you travelled or you just put to bed and you need about 3 months space for your body to heal!

That is why we keep preaching abstinence/virginity till marriage! It helps you control your libido and when necessary in marriage!

You can’t change a cheating guy! You are not God, neither are you the Holy Spirit!

Once you notice he chats with his EX full scale, he is avoiding you, flirts with other women on social media, he is always asking for s€x, he chats with unknown women from morning till night and he is not taking correction, for your peace sake! For your future sake! For your life sake, END THAT RELATIONSHIP in peace!

Don’t let any man push you to commit murder or manslaughter! There is no excuse under heaven strong enough to excuse murder! You do it, you will face the wrath of the law and your parents, siblings, friends and family will mourn your loss when the judge sentences you to death! All that sh!t can be avoided now!

The holy book says; “you are to love your neighbour as yourself” meaning, love yourself first, take care of your mental sanity, before proceeding with a relationship with another human being!

Once he is cheating, pick race! Don’t waste your time!

A cheating guy is immature, disrespectful, irresponsible, juvenile and not a soul you can waste your time with.

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Why Christians Can’t Interfere on Muslim-Muslim Killings : Reno Omokri

Why Christians Can’t Interfere on Muslim-Muslim Killings

Some Muslims accuse me and other Christian leaders of being silent when herdsmen, bandits, and other marauders kill Muslims. This is silly. When Muslims kill fellow Muslims that is a crisis within the Islamic body of Nigeria and Christians should be wise before meddling into that, given past events in Nigeria. Such kind of meddling have led to mass killings of Christians in Northern Nigeria.

It is very risky for a non Muslim to entangle himself or herself in Muslim on Muslim killings. I only did so when General Buhari massacred Shiites, because Shiites are a Muslim minority and had no protectors in Nigeria. So, I took the risk. I was the first voice with a significant platform that spoke and still speak against the treatment of the Shiites.

It is preposterous for Muslims to expect Christians to champion the fight to end Muslim against Muslim killings. Nigeria has the Nigerian Supreme Council of Islamic Affairs, Muslim Rights Concern (MURIC), and other bodies. The heads of the Executive, Judiciary and Legislature, are Northern Muslim males. The heads of 90% of Nigeria’s military agencies are Muslim, including the heads of the Ministry of Defence, Army, Airforce, Police, NSA, DMI, EFCC, DSS, DIA, NPS, NCS, NIS, NIA.

If, with all these, some Muslims still expect Christians to champion the fight to stop Muslim on Muslim killings, then I am sorry, but you are not being fair to us.

In 2006, a Danish cartoonist drew a cartoon considered blasphemous by Nigerian Muslims and Nigerian Christians were killed by Nigerian Muslims to punish him. Uncountable Christians have been killed, even beheaded by Muslims in Northern Nigeria for not minding their business, including Bridget Agbahime, who was beheaded on June 2, 2016 in Kano, and the Kano state Attorney General entered a no case submission against her suspected killers. We also have Pastor Eunice Elisha, who was killed in Abuja, on July 8, 2016, by Muslim youths, because she preached in a Muslim neighbourhood.

Since I was born, and I am now 46 years old, I have never read that Christians in Nigeria went about killing Muslims in a systematic and sustained manner. The challenge has always been with some Nigerian Muslims killing Nigerian Christians, not vice versa. Yes, Muslims are now killing fellow Muslims, especially in the North of Nigeria. It is unfortunate. However, Nigerian Christians are neither the cause or the solution.

However, I and other Christians leaders will continue to champion the struggle to end the killings of Christians by Muslims in Nigeria. That is our responsibility. We owe a duty of care to our parishioners and congregations. We will not keep quiet while Muslims, be they herdsmen, bandits, terrorists or Boko Haram, kill Christians.

And we reject the logic that we must not talk, because Muslims are also killing other Muslims. No. We will talk, because that is not our fault. We will appeal to leaders of the Muslim Ummah in Nigeria to put their house in order.

Enough of these killings. On February 2, 2017, the United States Congress officially cited Nigeria as the “Most Dangerous Place for Christians in the World”. From Southern Kaduna, to Plateau, to Borno, to Benue, and virtually every state in Nigeria, Christians are becoming an endangered specie under General Buhari, a man who on August 27, 2001 said “God willing, we will not stop the agitation for the total implementation of Sharia in the country”. And now, 19 years later, we are seeing the attempt to actualise the promise he made. Are we expected to keep quiet about these disturbing facts because we do not want to rock the boat?

Let me just ask, what would be the response of the Muslim Ummah in Nigeria if Christians were killing Muslims and when they complain, Christian leaders tell them-‘Can’t you see they are also killing Christians?’

Reno Omokri

Gospeller. Deep Thinker. #1 Bestselling author of Facts Versus Fiction: The True Story of the Jonathan Years. Avid traveller. Hollywood Magazine Film Festival Humanitarian of the Year, 2019.

It is very risky for a non Muslim to entangle himself or herself in Muslim on Muslim killings. I only did so when General Buhari massacred Shiites, because Shiites are a Muslim minority and had no protectors in Nigeria. So, I took the risk. I was the first voice with a significant platform that spoke and still speak against the treatment of the Shiites.

It is preposterous for Muslims to expect Christians to champion the fight to end Muslim against Muslim killings. Nigeria has the Nigerian Supreme Council of Islamic Affairs, Muslim Rights Concern (MURIC), and other bodies. The heads of the Executive, Judiciary and Legislature, are Northern Muslim males. The heads of 90% of Nigeria’s military agencies are Muslim, including the heads of the Ministry of Defence, Army, Airforce, Police, NSA, DMI, EFCC, DSS, DIA, NPS, NCS, NIS, NIA.

If, with all these, some Muslims still expect Christians to champion the fight to stop Muslim on Muslim killings, then I am sorry, but you are not being fair to us.

In 2006, a Danish cartoonist drew a cartoon considered blasphemous by Nigerian Muslims and Nigerian Christians were killed by Nigerian Muslims to punish him. Uncountable Christians have been killed, even beheaded by Muslims in Northern Nigeria for not minding their business, including Bridget Agbahime, who was beheaded on June 2, 2016 in Kano, and the Kano state Attorney General entered a no case submission against her suspected killers. We also have Pastor Eunice Elisha, who was killed in Abuja, on July 8, 2016, by Muslim youths, because she preached in a Muslim neighbourhood.

Since I was born, and I am now 46 years old, I have never read that Christians in Nigeria went about killing Muslims in a systematic and sustained manner. The challenge has always been with some Nigerian Muslims killing Nigerian Christians, not vice versa. Yes, Muslims are now killing fellow Muslims, especially in the North of Nigeria. It is unfortunate. However, Nigerian Christians are neither the cause or the solution.

However, I and other Christians leaders will continue to champion the struggle to end the killings of Christians by Muslims in Nigeria. That is our responsibility. We owe a duty of care to our parishioners and congregations. We will not keep quiet while Muslims, be they herdsmen, bandits, terrorists or Boko Haram, kill Christians.

And we reject the logic that we must not talk, because Muslims are also killing other Muslims. No. We will talk, because that is not our fault. We will appeal to leaders of the Muslim Ummah in Nigeria to put their house in order.

Enough of these killings. On February 2, 2017, the United States Congress officially cited Nigeria as the “Most Dangerous Place for Christians in the World”. From Southern Kaduna, to Plateau, to Borno, to Benue, and virtually every state in Nigeria, Christians are becoming an endangered specie under General Buhari, a man who on August 27, 2001 said “God willing, we will not stop the agitation for the total implementation of Sharia in the country”. And now, 19 years later, we are seeing the attempt to actualise the promise he made. Are we expected to keep quiet about these disturbing facts because we do not want to rock the boat?

Let me just ask, what would be the response of the Muslim Ummah in Nigeria if Christians were killing Muslims and when they complain, Christian leaders tell them-‘Can’t you see they are also killing Christians?’

Reno Omokri

Gospeller. Deep Thinker. #1 Bestselling author of Facts Versus Fiction: The True Story of the Jonathan Years. Avid traveller. Hollywood Magazine Film Festival Humanitarian of the Year, 2019.

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Go where you are CELEBRATED, not where you are TOLERATED.

Do not force yourself in to a place you are not welcomed.

WHEN A PERSON ISN’T INTERESTED IN YOU EMOTIONALLY.

1) They hardly call, return your calls or message you

So you keep calling and they miss most of the calls and don’t return the ones they miss, always giving you excuses, and you keep calling, I salute your persistent nature but If they don’t call or return your calls, chats, messages on several occasions, clearly they are avoiding you.

Let them be. It’s not you, it’s them. They aren’t interested.

2) They clearly say “I am not interested” to you a lot of times.

They tell you things like “I really like you as a brother/sister”

But… “I’m not interested in you”

Although to guys, some ladies can deliberately do that just to prove hard, know when to draw the line and accept the truth once and for all.

3) They hardly talk about themselves, their plans, or secret.

I’ll kindly advise you to re-write your mission statement if you are the only one doing the talking all the time. They may be indirectly telling you to move on.

When they keep replying you in monologue

You: How are you doing

Him/Her: Fine

You: How was your day

Him/Her: Fine.

Conversation that looks like you’re forcing them to chat or talk to you.

Please, move on.

4) They can’t stand your presence.

When you notice that each time you meet or bump into one another, they tend to dismiss you immediately with a lot of excuses.

“I got to go, we’ll see later” when they just met you

“I was actually on my way to…”

“Please we’ll talk later….. “

They don’t seem to enjoy your company and are alway in a hurry to get out of your presence, because it doesn’t interest them.

5) They don’t bother about your life.

When they don’t ask about your well being or care about what’s happening to you..

She never compliments you like “your top is cute”.

He does not ask how your day went, how your family are doing, your job amidst others.

You tell them about your plans and they forget about it immediately.
Don’t blame them. You’re not just a priority to them..

6) They are not emotionally available

You know that awkward feeling you get when someone doesn’t seem to be interested in connecting to you emotionally.

They are just cold.

Being with them is the real definition of boring and they seem to intentionally make it that way.

You’re the one asking questions and answering them at the same time.

7) They don’t find your jokes funny

When someone loves you, they’ll even laugh at your dry jokes that no one else would laugh at.

Imagine cracking a joke, something you consider to be extremely funny just to lighten up a moment and you’re the only one laughing at it.

Then she/he looks at you like “why is this one laughing? Joke that is not even funny”.

He/She can be mean just to play hard to get, test and offset/upset you or push you away because your feelings mean nothing to them., .

8) They cancel every time

. They keep canceling plans you already agreed to at the last minute, dates and meetings end up with “I’m sorry, I won’t be able to make it”

They make no effort to keep up their appointments with you.

9) They never initiate.

You always suggest and initiate everything

If you don’t call them, they don’t call you.

If you don’t text them, they don’t text you.

If you don’t ask for a date, they don’t.

They can go days without hearing from you or talking to you.

You have to demand for their attention before you ever get it.
You keep initiating everything that happens between the both of you. It’s a sign they are not with you.


Do not beg to be loved.

Do not force yourself in to a place you are not welcomed.

Go where you are CELEBRATED, not where you are TOLERATED.

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Dr Stella Immanuel COVID19 Hydroxychloroquine Video Deleted By Facebook, Twitter

Social media platforms like Facebook and Twitter as well as video streaming site, Youtube, have deleted videos by an American-based physician, Dr Stella Immanuel, who claimed to have recorded a 100 per cent success rate in the treatment of COVID-19 using hydroxychloroquine.

The video was first published by Breitbart News, a right-wing medium co-founded by Steve Bannon, a former aide to American President, Donald Trump.

In the video, which was shot in front of the United States Supreme Court, Dr Immanuel is seen with seven others wearing white lab coats calling themselves “America’s Frontline Doctors” and addressing the press.

President Trump, who is up for reelection in November, shared multiple versions of the video with his 84 million Twitter followers on Monday night.

During the press conference, she claims “you don’t need masks” to prevent the spread of the coronavirus, and that recent studies showing hydroxychloroquine is ineffective for the treatment of Covid-19 are “fake science” sponsored by “fake pharma companies”.

“This virus has a cure, it’s called hydroxychloroquine, zinc, and Zithromax,” the woman claims. “You don’t need masks, there is a cure.”

The claims run contrary to multiple studies on the anti-malarial drug and advice from public health officials to prevent the spread of the virus.

According to CNN, a study found that neither hydroxychloroquine alone nor hydroxychloroquine plus azithromycin appeared to affect the condition of patients at the 15-day mark. Additionally, unusual heart rhythms and elevated liver-enzyme levels were more frequent in patients receiving hydroxychloroquine alone or with azithromycin, according to the study.

The video quickly went viral on Facebook, becoming one of the top-performing posts on the platform with more than 14 million views before it was taken down Monday night for promoting misinformation. It was shared nearly 600,000 times, according to Crowdtangle, a data-analytics firm owned by Facebook.

“We’ve removed this video for sharing false information about cures and treatments for COVID-19,” a Facebook spokesperson told CNN, adding that the platform is “showing messages in News Feed to people who have reacted to, commented on or shared harmful COVID-19-related misinformation that we have removed, connecting them to myths debunked by the WHO.”

Twitter worked to scrub the video late Monday night after Trump shared versions of the video that amassed hundreds of thousands of views.

“We’re taking action in line with our Covid misinfo policy,” a Twitter spokesperson told CNN.

Twitter took action against the videos that Trump retweeted. By early Tuesday morning, the videos were no longer able to be viewed on his account. Twitter also took action on a version of the video posted by Donald Trump Jr. and others shared by Breitbart News.

The video was also removed by YouTube, where it had been viewed more than 40,000 times. Users attempting to access the video late Monday were greeted with a message that said it had been removed for “violating YouTube’s Community Guidelines.”

According to the website for America’s Frontline Doctors, the group is led by Dr. Simone Gold, a Los Angeles-based emergency medicine specialist who has previously been featured on Fox News for her views that stay-at-home orders are harmful. Gold told the Associated Press in May she wanted to speak out against stay-home orders because there was “no scientific basis that the average American should be concerned” about Covid-19.

America’s Frontline Doctors could not be reached for comment late Monday.

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African history, culture and traditions are intertwined!

There are pyramids in Sudan 🇸🇩, Egypt 🇪🇬, Nigeria 🇳🇬, Mali 🇲🇱 etc —African history, culture and traditions are intertwined!

Before the birth of Christianity and Islam, the ancient Egyptians and the rest of African Kingdoms practiced similar cultures, because we are same people. (many West African tribes & Southern African tribes still practice these cultures, and they have some of the roots of their cultures and traditions traced to Kemet (ancient Egypt).

Decolonize your mind and stop accepting those slavery bullshit as part of your history! You are never a slave, your ancestors pioneered the greatest civilization the world has ever seen!

Great Kingdoms existed in ancient Africa 🌍; Kingdom of Kush/Nubia
Kingdom of Benin
Songhai Empire
Timbuktu
Kemet (ancient Egypt)
Zulu Kingdom
Ajuran Sultanate
Sokoto Caliphate
Ashanti Empire etc —YOU WERE NOT TAUGHT ABOUT THE HISTORY AND GREATNESS OF NEITHER OF THESE KINGDOMS BUT YOU WERE TAUGHT ABOUT SLAVERY AND CIVIL RIGHTS MOVEMENTS? 🤔

*#note:- slavery isn’t a part of African history, it only interrupted Africa’s Great History!

African people pioneered many sophisticated civilizations on the planet… But the only African history the racist educational system keeps pushing to you are slavery and civil rights movements.

As an African, question everything you’re being taught!

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The Impact of Parenting Styles on Children’s Development

How you respond to and discipline your children greatly affects how they develop, both cognitively and socially. A child’s development process is influenced by a mixture of all the stimuli he comes into contact with, both with individuals and with his environment. Since parents are normally a fixed presence in a child’s life, they tend to have the most significant impact on whether his development is positive or negative.

Parents greatly affect their children’s behavior. Children are like sponges–they model everything a parent does and incorporate what they see into their own lives. It is important that parents set the right examples for their children. Negative examples can be detrimental to a child’s development and can lead to bad behavior.

The way a parent disciplines greatly affects their children’s behavior, When a parent elects to use physical punishment, such as spanking, it does not teach the child how to change his behavior. Children can also react aggressively to physical punishment. When parents chooses alternate forms of punishment, such as time-outs, they are helping modify the child’s bad behavior in a calm manner.

Bad parenting in this regard comes in the form of failing to buffer the adverse affects of crisis that a child experiences, not teaching a child coping skills and not being responsive during a time of need. When a child has poor resilience, this can stem from a parent’s inflexibility, inability to handle change well or failure to cope with negative emotions in a healthy manner.

As children grow, they progress from total dependence during their first years of life to a higher degree of independence in their teenage years, when they start feeling the need to create their own identity. Parents may feel overly protective of their kids and want to control every aspect of their lives, fearing dangers such as drugs, alcohol, violence in schools, teenage pregnancies and pedophiles. Parents need to know the difference between being involved in their children’s lives and being overprotective

RESILIENCE:
Resilience refers to a person’s ability to cope with social, emotional, behavioral, physical and educational hardships. Parents with poor resilience are more likely to have children who also lack resilience, according to Joseph Rowntree Foundation. Bad parenting in this regard comes in the form of failing to buffer the adverse affects of crisis that a child experiences, not teaching a child coping skills and not being responsive during a time of need. When a child has poor resilience, this can stem from a parent’s inflexibility, inability to handle change well or failure to cope with negative emotions in a healthy manner.

What Are the Advantages & Disadvantages of Parent Involvement in the life of their Children

Advantage: Positive Relationships
Parental involvement at school can help build positive interactions between parents and kids, as well as parents and teachers. Parents will have a better idea of what their child’s day is like, which can improve family communication. Younger children are often excited to see their parents in a volunteer role, and it may help to give them a positive outlook on school. It can also build and improve the relationships between parents and teachers. The teacher can get a better understanding of individual family dynamics, cultural background and challenges a family faces as well as their strengths. Parents may develop a better understanding of the teacher’s expectations and the challenging dynamics that teacher may face in class. Getting to know each other can clear up such frustrations as the way a teacher handles discipline or why a parent is unhappy with the amount of homework being assigned to her child.

Disadvantage: Helicopter Parenting
Some parents take their involvement too far. They are at school so much that they become a source of distraction for their child, or their child’s classmates and teachers. It’s important to remember that school is a place of learning as well as a workplace. Teachers do not want to encounter parents having a loud conversation by the faculty lounge about another teacher they don’t like or to be placed in the awkward position of reprimanding a student who is not following instructions because he wants to talk to his mom. Being overly involved can lead to stepping in too frequently to deal with issues the child should handle. Also, not all teachers are comfortable with a parent volunteer in class. Some students are too distracted by the presence of their parents, which can cause a lack of focus or behavior problems. A parent can help the school without necessarily being in the room.

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Women Share Why They Don’t Want To Get Married

When it comes to dating and relationships, everyone has different expectations when it comes to the future. Some people choose to remain single, some get married, and some are in a romantic relationship for a long time, but have no intention of walking down the aisle. There are many reasons why some women don’t want to get married, and they range from wanting to focus on other things to simply just not wanting to be married.

In fact, according to the Pew Research Center, as of 2017, 42 percent of U.S. adults live without a spouse or partner, which is up from 39 percent as of 2007. And, also according to the 2017 stats, approximately six in ten adults younger than 35, 61 percent, live without a spouse or partner versus 56 percent from 10 years prior. So, unmarried people are far from alone, so to speak, and it seems to be a trend that’s becoming more and more popular.

Of course, when it comes to getting married, there’s no right or wrong answer since every person has to choose what’s best for them. “Statistically, more and more people are choosing to stay single,” Antonia Hall, psychologist, relationship expert, and author of The Ultimate Guide to a Multi-Orgasmic Life, tells Bustle. “For some, it is a conscious choice to not repeat negative experiences — their own and their parent’s failed relationships guiding the decision.” She adds that other reasons to stay unmarried include maintaining a sense of independence, freedom, and control over one’s one life and finances; a lack of desire to have children; and the lack of belief in “The One.”

“Overall, many people feel happy and satisfied with their unmarried status, so why change what’s working by complicating things,” Hall says.

Exactly — different women have different reasons for not wanting to tie the knot.

Below, women share why they don’t want to get married.

As someone who is both of Nigerian descent and a Christian, people tend to be totally shocked when I tell them that I don’t want to get married. Both of these cultures are extremely patriarchal and tend to judge a woman’s worth in terms of her relationship to men — with the role of wife and mother being seen as the ultimate crown of womanhood — and this is to the point of overshadowing whatever other amazing feats she may have achieved beforehand or even go on to do afterwards. As a result, I grew up witnessing multiple female role models either forfeit their dreams, stay in abusive relationships, or operate from a place of low self-worth due to these religious, cultural, and social constructs.

Because of this, marriage (or the idea that my worth, purpose, or happiness should be tied to a man) came to symbolize entrapment, restriction, and the loss of identity very early on in life. So, to quote Jessica Knoll (bestselling author of The Luckiest Girl Alive), ‘ever since I was a little girl, my fairy tale ending involved a pantsuit, not a wedding dress. Success meant doing something well enough to secure independence’ and, ultimately, my freedom.”

(U.S)— “I’ve grown up in a (regular) happy home, but with many friends who came from homes of divorce. Later, of course, I’ve seen many friends get cheated on or cheat on someone — so the idea of staying with one person forever, even through those situations, doesn’t make sense to me. However, I fully respect the idea of marriage for people who choose to honor it, but it just seems like a title and joke to me personally.

I almost got married a few years ago, but the idea of being tied down really got to me. I’m now very happy that it didn’t happen — I would have felt a bit shameful about getting married even though it wasn’t what I wanted. I also don’t plan to get married because of the cost, dress, venues, food/liquor, rings — it all just seems so frivolous for a ‘love commitment’ that I can’t buy into it.”

Angela Said : I don’t want to get married. I grew up as an only child, and have never really felt the need (or desire) for a partner. I have had relationships that rival your fave romance novel, and tragedies that Adele couldn’t fathom singing about, but at the end of the day, I’m always the most satisfied when I’m single. I’m also a digital nomad, and while I know plenty of nomad couples, I honestly think having another person in my life would simply get in the way.

Kalay : This year will mark nine years that I’ve been with my boyfriend. For context, I met him while I was a freshman in college (he lived in another city, and we were long-distance for about four years). He was my first and only serious boyfriend — we have no children, we are not religious, and we do not want children. Purchasing a house together this year has felt like our version of marriage or a wedding. In ways, it feels like a bigger deal and more of a milestone than getting married ever could.

Our situation is not a result of him ‘dragging his feet’ or a lack of commitment, which is a common assumption of those who don’t know us. If anything, I’ve ‘led the charge’ on proactively writing off the idea of a marriage. I think the confidence and independence I developed being in a long-distance relationship is part of the reason I (and he) don’t want to, nor feel compelled to, get married. We know each other so intimately, we trust each other whole-heartedly, and I’m confident that marriage wouldn’t catapult us into a new level of closeness or intimacy — I wouldn’t feel ‘safer’ or any more ‘taken care of’ by being married to him.”

As you can see, there are several reasons why some women prefer not to get married, and you may be able to relate to some of them. Whatever the case may be, only you know your reasons, and it’s best to honor them above all.

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