Lady Jumped into Lagos Lagoon after phone Conversation with Boyfriend.
A young lady has been reported to have killed herself by jumping inside the lagoon at the Third Mainland Bridge in Lagos state.
Eyewitness accounts revealed that the incident happened in a flash when suddenly the lady alighted from a cab and plunged into the lagoon
The Uber driver revealed that an argument had ensued between the lady and her husband before she hopped out and plunged into the lagoon.
Confirming the incidence, the Lagos State Emergency Management Agency (LASEMA) has said that an over 30years old lady has committed suicide, jumping into lagoon from Third Mainland Bridge.
LASEMA revealed that the lady alighted from a car hauling service on the bridge and jumped into the lagoon before she could be stopped.
According to the emergency agency, the driver of the taxi raised the alarm after she suddenly asked that he stops the car, alighted and jumped into the lagoon immediately
As gathered, she was having a heated conversation with her fiance on phone and after ending the call, alighted from the car and allegedly committed suicide.
The lady identified as Adetutu Adedokun, is an Officer working with the Department of State Security (DSS), she got commendation four months ago from the DG, DSS, as the best unarmed combat operative in her set.
Don’t Date An Unemployed Woman With High Maintenance, Reno Omokri Warns Men
Former Presidential aide and activist, Reno Omokri has taken to Twitter to advise men to desist from dating unemployed women who demand high maintenance to maintain their lifestyle.
He stated that it is foolish for a man to date a woman who does not have any source of livelihood but demands to be treated with high maintenance from a man.
According to him, it’s more like carrying a burden on oneself.
He further advised men to focus on achieving greatness, like a tree with fruit, then women would gather around them.
He wrote, “Dating an unemployed female who is also high maintenance is one of the wrongest moves you can make. It is like paying to carry a burden. Listen, women are not rare. 50% of the population are women. Stop dating a liability no matter her sensuality!.
“Never think that relationships with women are hard to get. Not true. Success is hard to get. A job is hard to get. Millionaire status is hard to get. Prioritise. Focus on things that are hard to get. Once your tree has fruit, women will gather under it!.”
Businesswoman Reportedly Rejects Ooni’s Marriage Proposal
A Nigerian woman identified as Laide Lanre-Badmus, has allegedly publicly rejected the Ooni of Ife, Oba Adeyeye Ogunwusi’s marriage proposal. It was reported that the graduate of Politics and International Relations has been romantically linked to the traditional ruler for sometime.
Sources say they have been so smitten by each other that everyone within and outside the palace thought their closeness would end up in marriage, however, she rejected his proposal.
A palace source told ace journalist, Kemi Ashefon that Lanre-Badmus declined because she can’t afford to share the Ooni with other women.
“Laide is a steady face in Ile Ife and there is no one in the palace who doesn’t know ‘Oloori Laide’. Yes, they call her Oloori in the palace and everyone thought Baba (Ooni) would marry her because he really loves her and she doesn’t joke with their affair.
“But she refused. She didn’t want the mass wedding for two months to take place between September and October 2022. Not because she didn’t love him (she still does) but because she doesn’t want to share the love of her life with so many women.
“Though it wasn’t Ooni’s intention to be polygamous, he couldn’t help it. He was instructed by the gods to marry many wives after Naomi left in December 2021 and he had to adhere to the instruction from the establishment.
“It’s really sudden that she would reject this proposal because they were very close and she was always with him. So many things are involved in this matter and it’s between LLB and the Ooni. They are still in love with each other anyways,” the source said.
Top Lagos businessman and socialite, Shola Oniru has finally reacted to the purported viral video that surfaced online a few days ago, showing him in a compromising state, with unclad lady at a private event.
In a brief and precise statement released by Shola, he owned up to the video and apologized to the general public and those who have been linked to the viral video.
He also stated categorically that he was mistaken for the son of a two-term governor of Kwara state and president of the 8th senate, Dr Olubukola Saraki, and apologized accordingly.
While condemning the reckless and insensitive guise of whoever may have leaked the video, he appealed to the general public to respect his privacy and of those that may have been affected by the malicious video, at this time.
He also vowed to deploy every legal means to bring those behind the circulation of the video, to book. Read his statement below;
“I, Shola Oniru am aware of a viral video circulating on the social media in which I am being mistaken for the son of the former Governor of Kwara State (and past President of the 8th Nigeria National Assembly) Dr. Olubukola Abubakar Saraki, MBBS, CON
“This Public Notice is to correct this viral and false representation that has caused massive embarrassment to my family and the Saraki Family. I sincerely apologise to the former Governor, his son, the Saraki Family at large and my Family for the embarrassment and damage this episode has caused. The video was taken while I was at a private event with my friends and was never meant to be circulated.
“I condemn the circulation of the video and will explore all legal avenue to ensure those that circulated the video are brought to book.
“Finally, I implore the public to kindly respect the privacy of all persons that are affected by malicious circulation of the video”, he wrote.
A 36-year-old man identified as Mayowa Dele has been arraigned for allegedly killing his girlfriend and removing her private parts in Lagos.
The incident occurred in the Ijegun area of Lagos State.
It was learnt that Dele was arrested while he was cooking the body parts of the victim, identified as Mercy for a concoction.
Police prosecutor, Thomas Nurudeen, an Assistant Superintendent of Police, told the court that the content of the pot was found to be human parts.
“My Lord, three suspects; Oluwakemi Azeez (20), Oyedegun Adewale (27) and Jejelaye Osusola (22) were also arrested for their alleged involvement in the murder of Mercy.
“Apart from putting some of the body parts in the pot to cook, he also put some inside a cement bag and kept it in his room while the remaining parts were wrapped up in bed sheets and buried in an uncompleted building in the area,” Nurudeen told the court.
The police, however, said they were yet to ascertain the motive behind the murder of Mercy, but added that Dele implicated others during interrogation.
The suspects have been arraigned on murder charges.
However, Magistrate P. E. Nwaka ordered their remand at a correctional centre pending the receipt of legal advice from the Director of Public Prosecutions
DSP Olusegun Bamidele, a witness withinside the trial of Chidinma Ojukwu, has given testimony in courtroom docket.
Bamidele, the 9th prosecution witness withinside the homicide case of Usifo Ataga, has advised a Lagos High Court sitting in Tafawa Balewa Square how the high suspect Chidinma Ojukwu transferred the sum of N5 million from the Super TV Chief Executive Officer’s financial institution account the day she allegedly stabbed him to death.
Testifying earlier than the High Court on Thursday, Bamidele defined to the courtroom docket how the 300-degree Mass Communication undergraduate of the University of Lagos transferred N5 million from Ataga’s account to any other account on June 15, 2021.
The protection shield of the quick allow provider condominium, Abubakar Mohammed, in which Ataga turned into murdered throughout his proof earlier than the courtroom docket on November 16, 2021, stated that Chidinma left the condo on a Tuesday night, which changed into June 15, 2021, and in no way back there.
The protection protect additionally knowledgeable the courtroom docket that it become on Wednesday, June 16, 2021, that the lifeless frame of Ataga become determined.
Chidinma who’s status trial earlier than Justice Yetunde Adesanya for the alleged homicide of Ataga is likewise charged with stealing and forgery along her sister, Chioma Egbuchu and one Adedapo Quadri.
Chidinma become arraigned along Quadri and Egbuchu on October 12, 2021, on 9 counts of homicide through the Lagos State Government.
Whereas Chidinma and Quadri are going through the primary to 8 counts bordering on conspiracy, homicide, stabbing, forgery, making of financial institution statements and stealing, Egbuchu is going through the 9th rely of receiving a stolen iPhone 7 belonging to the overdue Super TV CEO.
According to the expenses in opposition to them, Chidinma and Quadri have been imagined to have conspired and murdered Ataga on June 15, 2021, through stabbing him numerous instances with a knife withinside the neck and chest.
On Thursday, the Deputy Director of Public Prosecutions (DDPP), Mrs Adenike Oluwafemi, on the resumed listening to of the case informed the courtroom docket that the problem become for continuation of trial.
During the continuation of the trial, Bamidele who had now no longer completed giving proof changed into ushered into the witness container in the course of which the DPP, Oluwafemi requested for showcase P11, that’s the Access Bank Statement of Ataga.
She requested the witness to inform the courtroom docket why he had the financial institution statements of the deceased.
Responding, Bamidele informed the courtroom docket that in the path of the research and in a bid to recognize what should have influenced the primary defendant (Chidinma) to kill the Super TV CEO, the police wrote Access Bank requesting the financial institution assertion of the deceased and a replica turned into given to them.
Bamidele in addition defined that from a near have a take a observe the copies of the financial institution statements coupled with the reality that the telephones of the deceased have been already withinside the ownership of the primary defendant, who have been on top of things of the account, it turned into located that on June 15, 2021, the primary defendant used the deceased’s telecellsmartphone to switch N5 million from his account to some other financial institution.
Continuing, the witness stated, “On June 16, 2021, 4 transactions of N20,000 had been crafted from the deceased’s account and on June 17, any other withdrawal of N20,000 become made 5 instances and the comments have been ‘switch among customers’.
“On the equal June 16, N50,000 became transferred to Nkechi Mogbo, any other N11,2 hundred of the fund become additionally transferred to Caprical Capital, at the equal June 16, some other N50,000 turned into transferred from Ataga’s account to Mogbo and every other N93,000 transferred from Ataga’s GTBank to his Access Bank account. A switch of N110,000.seventy five changed into debited from the deceased’s account on June 18, 2021.
“On June 19, 2021, a switch of N20,000 turned into made 4 instances on that identical day every other switch of N20,000 changed into made 5 instances and it became via the us code.”
Bamidele similarly defined they wrote to GTBank to get Ataga’s assertion of account, and that on June 13, 2021, there has been a web switch of N10,000 to Chidinma, any other N105,000 became additionally transferred to Chidinma at the identical day for price of the quick allow provider condominium, paid to Nkechi Mogbo, the proprietor of the rental.
“On that identical June 13, there has been N13,000 buy transaction at Ango Villa, N14,two hundred transaction for buy at Dwine Bar global, at the identical June 13, there has been a switch of N20,399.
“On June 14, 2021, there has been N21,000 switch from Ataga’s account to Chidinma’s account and some other switch of N15,000 paid to Chidinma, there has been a N5,000 transaction that become made on June 14 and paid to Adiba Online choppy.”
It became collected that once the prosecution sought to confess the written statements of the defendants, Chidinma’s recommend, Onwuka Egwu, objected to the admissibility of the record and argued that the primary defendant (Chidinma) did now no longer make the statements voluntarily.
The legal professional stated the statements have been received through oppression, inducement, intimidation and beneathneath duress and consequently prayed the courtroom docket to check the veracity of the voluntariness of the statements.
Meanwhile, the suggest for the second one defendant, Babatunde Busari, did now no longer object, and the recommend for the 0.33 defendant, Miss M. A. Abia-Bassey additionally did now no longer object.
But the prosecutor prayed the courtroom docket to behavior a tribulation in the trial for Chidinma.
After paying attention to each parties, Justice Adesanya adjourned the case to November 8, for trial in the trial.
A yet-to-be diagnosed suspected net fraudster, popularly acknowledged as “Yahoo Boy”, has been accused of killing and burying his female friend in a shallow grave in his room.
A video making the rounds on line captured the chaotic second while citizens of the location accumulated on the scene of the incident to examine the shallow grave after it became uncovered.
In the viral clip, a number of the citizens who trooped out of their numbers expressed anger and soreness on the sight.
Although the precise area of the incident is unknown, a social media consumer who shared the video on-line entreated girls to be cautious.
South African pastor, Dr. Thomas Mukala of True Worshippers Word Empowerment Ministry, Sandton, Johannesburg has shared his mind on Love and marriage.
According to the Pastor, love on my own isn’t always sufficient to make a wedding or dating work.
The clergyman who’s additionally a a success businessman said this on Sunday, October 23, 2022, and he counseled that the important thing to a long lasting marriage is Divine Knowledge.
In his words ;
“Love on my own does now no longer maintain Marriage/Relationship…Love by myself does now no longer preserve marriage, however divine information does, due to the fact you may nevertheless divorce or cut up with a person you continue to made in love with.
Because of such a lot of different reasons :-Unfaithfulness -Emotional & Physical Abuses -Disrespectful -Evil hearts -Bad manners -Witchcraft -Unequally Yoked….
But if you have divine KNOWLEDGE you could triumph over these kind of and nevertheless maintain your Marriage/Relationship even whilst you don’t sense the affection anymore…
The largest hassle nowadays in maximum couples and relationship are missing the expertise of this group known as marriage. People will spend hundreds of thousands in hiring venues, paying catering, get dressed the modern wedding ceremony gowns.
But spend nothing, no time no prayers no fasting into what makes marriage works. BIBLICAL PRE-MARITAL COUSELLING EMPOWERMENT
When they have got marital problems, they ran to incorrect dealerships “ wounded friends , no position version own circle of relatives members, none Christian marriage Counsellors , sangamas….” Instead of taking this automobile referred to as marriage to the only who made it “ GOD “ and God accepted certified dealership of a success luckily married couples to examine the secrets and techniques and be constant.
You can’t take your costly vehicle Maserati to a Soweto storage beneathneath a tree round the corner baragwana taxi rank and anticipate that Maserati to be constant if now no longer absolutely damaged. This is why maximum marriages are absolutely useless incorrect garages.
A Nigerian woman who got married as a virgin, has found out that she could not have intercourse with her Husband for months.
The lady recognized as Titothewriter, shared some of the disturbing experiences she faced including getting violated by a doctor. She also disclosed that she and her husband had to find other ways to enjoy each other even after undergoing a surgery over not being able to consummate their marriage.
On the first anniversary of her wedding, she took to her social media page to share ;
As difficult as I tried, I never was the little girl that had dreams about her wedding. For the most part, I just wanted the major stakeholders to be happy. Let everyone enjoy themselves and have money after the wedding.
Therefore, when the situation arose that warranted a privately intimate wedding, it wasn’t much of a bother to adjust because the picture of happiness I had did not warrant anything happening.
However, as much as I never thought any preconceived ideas of what my wedding would look like, I knew what it wasn’t going to look like. And for the life of me, it was not that my husband and I would have a major issue with consummating our marriage (properly) for months!
The issue is called Vaginismus and no, I’m not ashamed of it so please don’t help me to be ashamed of what I’m not ashamed of. Vaginismus is more of a mental condition than it is a physical one. So imagine my surprise when the honeymoon I had pictured was laden with pain, tears and fatigue! Oh I cried! I cried so hard! Because we had fought to get to where we were! People were congratulating us and we were thankful but what was this?
The ache? Excruciating raised to a power of 1000! I was in pain! Intense, serious and body shaking pain. My husband hurt from watching me writhe in pain. What was a lubricant? What didn’t we try?
A few weeks after, nothing had happened and I was very tired of hearing “just close your eyes…” “you’re imagining the pain…” “it’s not that hard.”
I went to a gynaecologist at Iwaya…
To be continued tomorrow because tears have filled my eyes now
On the 26th of January, exactly one month after our wedding, I decided to seek medical help. I drove myself to the hospital at Iwaya, Yaba. This was my first ever gynecologist visit.
I explained to a general health practitioner first and then I was referred to the CMD of the hospital. I remember walking in head down in shame, as if I brought it upon myself. That part does not work again sha.
I sat in front of this thick man with no name card or plaque in sight. Not on his door, table, or overall, I should have walked away but I did not because I did not even know what to expect.
I explained everything to him, in between tears. I literally felt I could not do anything, no matter how much my husband encouraged me. “How long did you people date for?” he asked almost eyeing me. “2 years and 8 months.” I answered. “So you people dated for close to three years and you didn’t have sex?” Now he was irritated. “No, we didn’t.” I was smiling, trying to change the topic. “So the rest of us are sinners? Abi? Look at it now? Three years, no sex?” His words felt like a dagger in my heart because at the time, I was already asking God why He asked that we remain sexually pure if the process of deflowering was this painful. This man asked me almost five times if I’m sure I’m a virgin. I answered that I clearly am. Except for the sexual abuse that happened when I was a child which would have obviously sponsored that reality!
He went ahead to reduce everything I said. And then asked me to lay on the examination table. After checking the first time, the guy said there’s a seal than can easily be removed with his fingers. Brethren, those were the worst three minutes of my life. I fell from the table as I ran from this pain. The pain was about to numb my ears and my feet. I screamed but it came out as muffled groans because tears poured too much. The matron he had sent for had to shout at him to stop!
I couldn’t drive home after than incident. I had to call my husband to come get me. Tears didn’t stop for almost an hour. I kept crying and crying!
At that point I vowed to encourage premarital sex but…
As we drove home from that silly doctor, I was very quiet. The tears did not stop. At this time, I wasn’t trying to cry. My body just was exhaling. My body knew it had been violated. My husband would have gone to bring the place down but the issue at hand was more serious to me than getting the idiot to pay.
He had told us to try that night but we could not. We could not even try that week. I bled for about two days too. At this point, I was sure that I was going to be an ambassador for premarital sex! God had deceived me, I was going to get Him back!
Then I called my aunty. She’s a top consultant in Ibadan and long story short, we were in Ibadan, University College Hospital, the next week.
The professor we saw? Oh what an amazing man!!!! He cried with me, he consoled me, when it was time to examine me, he encouraged me when I hesitated a couple of times. I started crying on the examination table without anyone touching me. After examination, he prescribed Lidocaine (a numbing lubricant) and said we should try but if nothing happened, the surgery would be carried out.
Thursday that week, I was in UCH for a surgery! I was completely put under. I didn’t even know when I slept off. They called it digital dilation. My husband was a rock! A complete support and Aunty D too! My mum could hardly sleep or breathe, oh I don’t want to go into my mum’s reaction! It’s too much! The woman was literally broken.
Anyway, brethren, after spending the little we spent and the time, and my body being knocked out for two weeks after that surgery. I was dizzy for two weeks non stop.
The. Surgery. Did. Not. Work! At this point, I lay on the bed and asked God what I had done to deserve this pain? Shebi if it was just difficult, it would have been different. The pain was completely beyond me! It would reverberate underneath my feet almost numb my ears! It wasn’t a cute pain or a bearable pain!
The professor had told us that if the surgery did not work, we were to return for a procedure where I’ll be numbed waist down and then we try in view of professionals! Samuel swore that it will never be him or his wife! So that was a no-go area!
When we returned to our base, we both decided to leave it. We were tired. As in I was very tired and we were barely two months into the marriage.
What was worse? I hadn’t even asked God anything. Everything we had done up until that point, we did with our logical calculation. I didn’t even consider God. I didn’t ask if it was His will, I became Uzzah and ran to help God. I didn’t realize what I’d done until HS and I had a conversation and He chided me gently. I cried.
Aunty D and the Professor kept calling to find out the progress we had made and I had to gently tell her to leave it be. My mental health had taken such a hit that I could not even have anyone constantly checking on us.
My husband and I decided to enjoy each other. Ladies and gentlemen, penetrative sex is not the only sex in the world. It’s not. So rest very well. I have never and will never support masturbation but your husband can familiarize himself with you. Hiding can’t work. Open up and let the exploration begin.
We needed to unlearn the expectation that penetrative sex was the ultimate goal, it is not. Sexual satisfaction is. Find what works for you and do it well.
Then came a program called “Sex, Love and Goop” on Netflix. There were many things I did not agree with in that documentary but our breakthrough came through a procedure on the show; Calculated breathing.
I realized that what my body was doing was natural. It was preventing me from an “anti-body” and the reflex action was to close up. When I consciously take calculated breaths before we begin, I allow my body to relax. I also began to have conversations with my mind “This is good for me. This is good for us. He is one of us now.” In. Out. In again. Out again. Slight pain. In. Out. Deeper. In. Out.
Like that, we. won. Whoosh! God! The first time, it still hurt but it was bearable. The second time, the pain was more bearable and like that, Jesus got the victory.
Relax. Rest. Enjoy yourselves. There’s more to marriage than sex. Trust me. By the time you get the victory, sex will be an added bonus. You can be intimate without penetrative sex.
Here are some lessons that I got from the situation:
1) Marriage is warfare. It makes no scriptural sense that those who have preserved themselves, with the help of God, for marriage should find that much pain before they derive pleasure. Some people are still stuck there even after children. It cannot be God’s promise. This is why prayer with a lot of thanksgiving is something no marriage should scrimp on. Please pray so much and so well and make sure your thanksgiving is more than your prayer point. It is warfare that has already been won.
2) When something is beyond you, give it to the Person beyond life and leave it there. Vaginismus is not your fault. You didn’t cause it. Therefore, rest!
3) The mind can be retrained. Your body has “prevented” you from sex all your life. Therefore, mild exercise like calculated breathing, kegel exercises and the likes will help retrain your mind.
4) Sometimes, there may be something else you need to work on. In our case, there was an hidden issue on my husband’s part. We spent almost
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