Why Christians Can’t Interfere on Muslim-Muslim Killings

Some Muslims accuse me and other Christian leaders of being silent when herdsmen, bandits, and other marauders kill Muslims. This is silly. When Muslims kill fellow Muslims that is a crisis within the Islamic body of Nigeria and Christians should be wise before meddling into that, given past events in Nigeria. Such kind of meddling have led to mass killings of Christians in Northern Nigeria.

It is very risky for a non Muslim to entangle himself or herself in Muslim on Muslim killings. I only did so when General Buhari massacred Shiites, because Shiites are a Muslim minority and had no protectors in Nigeria. So, I took the risk. I was the first voice with a significant platform that spoke and still speak against the treatment of the Shiites.

It is preposterous for Muslims to expect Christians to champion the fight to end Muslim against Muslim killings. Nigeria has the Nigerian Supreme Council of Islamic Affairs, Muslim Rights Concern (MURIC), and other bodies. The heads of the Executive, Judiciary and Legislature, are Northern Muslim males. The heads of 90% of Nigeria’s military agencies are Muslim, including the heads of the Ministry of Defence, Army, Airforce, Police, NSA, DMI, EFCC, DSS, DIA, NPS, NCS, NIS, NIA.

If, with all these, some Muslims still expect Christians to champion the fight to stop Muslim on Muslim killings, then I am sorry, but you are not being fair to us.

In 2006, a Danish cartoonist drew a cartoon considered blasphemous by Nigerian Muslims and Nigerian Christians were killed by Nigerian Muslims to punish him. Uncountable Christians have been killed, even beheaded by Muslims in Northern Nigeria for not minding their business, including Bridget Agbahime, who was beheaded on June 2, 2016 in Kano, and the Kano state Attorney General entered a no case submission against her suspected killers. We also have Pastor Eunice Elisha, who was killed in Abuja, on July 8, 2016, by Muslim youths, because she preached in a Muslim neighbourhood.

Since I was born, and I am now 46 years old, I have never read that Christians in Nigeria went about killing Muslims in a systematic and sustained manner. The challenge has always been with some Nigerian Muslims killing Nigerian Christians, not vice versa. Yes, Muslims are now killing fellow Muslims, especially in the North of Nigeria. It is unfortunate. However, Nigerian Christians are neither the cause or the solution.

However, I and other Christians leaders will continue to champion the struggle to end the killings of Christians by Muslims in Nigeria. That is our responsibility. We owe a duty of care to our parishioners and congregations. We will not keep quiet while Muslims, be they herdsmen, bandits, terrorists or Boko Haram, kill Christians.

And we reject the logic that we must not talk, because Muslims are also killing other Muslims. No. We will talk, because that is not our fault. We will appeal to leaders of the Muslim Ummah in Nigeria to put their house in order.

Enough of these killings. On February 2, 2017, the United States Congress officially cited Nigeria as the “Most Dangerous Place for Christians in the World”. From Southern Kaduna, to Plateau, to Borno, to Benue, and virtually every state in Nigeria, Christians are becoming an endangered specie under General Buhari, a man who on August 27, 2001 said “God willing, we will not stop the agitation for the total implementation of Sharia in the country”. And now, 19 years later, we are seeing the attempt to actualise the promise he made. Are we expected to keep quiet about these disturbing facts because we do not want to rock the boat?

Let me just ask, what would be the response of the Muslim Ummah in Nigeria if Christians were killing Muslims and when they complain, Christian leaders tell them-‘Can’t you see they are also killing Christians?’

Reno Omokri

Gospeller. Deep Thinker. #1 Bestselling author of Facts Versus Fiction: The True Story of the Jonathan Years. Avid traveller. Hollywood Magazine Film Festival Humanitarian of the Year, 2019.

It is very risky for a non Muslim to entangle himself or herself in Muslim on Muslim killings. I only did so when General Buhari massacred Shiites, because Shiites are a Muslim minority and had no protectors in Nigeria. So, I took the risk. I was the first voice with a significant platform that spoke and still speak against the treatment of the Shiites.

It is preposterous for Muslims to expect Christians to champion the fight to end Muslim against Muslim killings. Nigeria has the Nigerian Supreme Council of Islamic Affairs, Muslim Rights Concern (MURIC), and other bodies. The heads of the Executive, Judiciary and Legislature, are Northern Muslim males. The heads of 90% of Nigeria’s military agencies are Muslim, including the heads of the Ministry of Defence, Army, Airforce, Police, NSA, DMI, EFCC, DSS, DIA, NPS, NCS, NIS, NIA.

If, with all these, some Muslims still expect Christians to champion the fight to stop Muslim on Muslim killings, then I am sorry, but you are not being fair to us.

In 2006, a Danish cartoonist drew a cartoon considered blasphemous by Nigerian Muslims and Nigerian Christians were killed by Nigerian Muslims to punish him. Uncountable Christians have been killed, even beheaded by Muslims in Northern Nigeria for not minding their business, including Bridget Agbahime, who was beheaded on June 2, 2016 in Kano, and the Kano state Attorney General entered a no case submission against her suspected killers. We also have Pastor Eunice Elisha, who was killed in Abuja, on July 8, 2016, by Muslim youths, because she preached in a Muslim neighbourhood.

Since I was born, and I am now 46 years old, I have never read that Christians in Nigeria went about killing Muslims in a systematic and sustained manner. The challenge has always been with some Nigerian Muslims killing Nigerian Christians, not vice versa. Yes, Muslims are now killing fellow Muslims, especially in the North of Nigeria. It is unfortunate. However, Nigerian Christians are neither the cause or the solution.

However, I and other Christians leaders will continue to champion the struggle to end the killings of Christians by Muslims in Nigeria. That is our responsibility. We owe a duty of care to our parishioners and congregations. We will not keep quiet while Muslims, be they herdsmen, bandits, terrorists or Boko Haram, kill Christians.

And we reject the logic that we must not talk, because Muslims are also killing other Muslims. No. We will talk, because that is not our fault. We will appeal to leaders of the Muslim Ummah in Nigeria to put their house in order.

Enough of these killings. On February 2, 2017, the United States Congress officially cited Nigeria as the “Most Dangerous Place for Christians in the World”. From Southern Kaduna, to Plateau, to Borno, to Benue, and virtually every state in Nigeria, Christians are becoming an endangered specie under General Buhari, a man who on August 27, 2001 said “God willing, we will not stop the agitation for the total implementation of Sharia in the country”. And now, 19 years later, we are seeing the attempt to actualise the promise he made. Are we expected to keep quiet about these disturbing facts because we do not want to rock the boat?

Let me just ask, what would be the response of the Muslim Ummah in Nigeria if Christians were killing Muslims and when they complain, Christian leaders tell them-‘Can’t you see they are also killing Christians?’

Reno Omokri

Gospeller. Deep Thinker. #1 Bestselling author of Facts Versus Fiction: The True Story of the Jonathan Years. Avid traveller. Hollywood Magazine Film Festival Humanitarian of the Year, 2019.

Social media platforms like Facebook and Twitter as well as video streaming site, Youtube, have deleted videos by an American-based physician, Dr Stella Immanuel, who claimed to have recorded a 100 per cent success rate in the treatment of COVID-19 using hydroxychloroquine.

The video was first published by Breitbart News, a right-wing medium co-founded by Steve Bannon, a former aide to American President, Donald Trump.

In the video, which was shot in front of the United States Supreme Court, Dr Immanuel is seen with seven others wearing white lab coats calling themselves “America’s Frontline Doctors” and addressing the press.

President Trump, who is up for reelection in November, shared multiple versions of the video with his 84 million Twitter followers on Monday night.

During the press conference, she claims “you don’t need masks” to prevent the spread of the coronavirus, and that recent studies showing hydroxychloroquine is ineffective for the treatment of Covid-19 are “fake science” sponsored by “fake pharma companies”.

“This virus has a cure, it’s called hydroxychloroquine, zinc, and Zithromax,” the woman claims. “You don’t need masks, there is a cure.”

The claims run contrary to multiple studies on the anti-malarial drug and advice from public health officials to prevent the spread of the virus.

According to CNN, a study found that neither hydroxychloroquine alone nor hydroxychloroquine plus azithromycin appeared to affect the condition of patients at the 15-day mark. Additionally, unusual heart rhythms and elevated liver-enzyme levels were more frequent in patients receiving hydroxychloroquine alone or with azithromycin, according to the study.

The video quickly went viral on Facebook, becoming one of the top-performing posts on the platform with more than 14 million views before it was taken down Monday night for promoting misinformation. It was shared nearly 600,000 times, according to Crowdtangle, a data-analytics firm owned by Facebook.

“We’ve removed this video for sharing false information about cures and treatments for COVID-19,” a Facebook spokesperson told CNN, adding that the platform is “showing messages in News Feed to people who have reacted to, commented on or shared harmful COVID-19-related misinformation that we have removed, connecting them to myths debunked by the WHO.”

Twitter worked to scrub the video late Monday night after Trump shared versions of the video that amassed hundreds of thousands of views.

“We’re taking action in line with our Covid misinfo policy,” a Twitter spokesperson told CNN.

Twitter took action against the videos that Trump retweeted. By early Tuesday morning, the videos were no longer able to be viewed on his account. Twitter also took action on a version of the video posted by Donald Trump Jr. and others shared by Breitbart News.

The video was also removed by YouTube, where it had been viewed more than 40,000 times. Users attempting to access the video late Monday were greeted with a message that said it had been removed for “violating YouTube’s Community Guidelines.”

According to the website for America’s Frontline Doctors, the group is led by Dr. Simone Gold, a Los Angeles-based emergency medicine specialist who has previously been featured on Fox News for her views that stay-at-home orders are harmful. Gold told the Associated Press in May she wanted to speak out against stay-home orders because there was “no scientific basis that the average American should be concerned” about Covid-19.

America’s Frontline Doctors could not be reached for comment late Monday.

There are pyramids in Sudan 🇸🇩, Egypt 🇪🇬, Nigeria 🇳🇬, Mali 🇲🇱 etc —African history, culture and traditions are intertwined!

Before the birth of Christianity and Islam, the ancient Egyptians and the rest of African Kingdoms practiced similar cultures, because we are same people. (many West African tribes & Southern African tribes still practice these cultures, and they have some of the roots of their cultures and traditions traced to Kemet (ancient Egypt).

Decolonize your mind and stop accepting those slavery bullshit as part of your history! You are never a slave, your ancestors pioneered the greatest civilization the world has ever seen!

Great Kingdoms existed in ancient Africa 🌍; Kingdom of Kush/Nubia
Kingdom of Benin
Songhai Empire
Timbuktu
Kemet (ancient Egypt)
Zulu Kingdom
Ajuran Sultanate
Sokoto Caliphate
Ashanti Empire etc —YOU WERE NOT TAUGHT ABOUT THE HISTORY AND GREATNESS OF NEITHER OF THESE KINGDOMS BUT YOU WERE TAUGHT ABOUT SLAVERY AND CIVIL RIGHTS MOVEMENTS? 🤔

*#note:- slavery isn’t a part of African history, it only interrupted Africa’s Great History!

African people pioneered many sophisticated civilizations on the planet… But the only African history the racist educational system keeps pushing to you are slavery and civil rights movements.

As an African, question everything you’re being taught!

How you respond to and discipline your children greatly affects how they develop, both cognitively and socially. A child’s development process is influenced by a mixture of all the stimuli he comes into contact with, both with individuals and with his environment. Since parents are normally a fixed presence in a child’s life, they tend to have the most significant impact on whether his development is positive or negative.

Parents greatly affect their children’s behavior. Children are like sponges–they model everything a parent does and incorporate what they see into their own lives. It is important that parents set the right examples for their children. Negative examples can be detrimental to a child’s development and can lead to bad behavior.

The way a parent disciplines greatly affects their children’s behavior, When a parent elects to use physical punishment, such as spanking, it does not teach the child how to change his behavior. Children can also react aggressively to physical punishment. When parents chooses alternate forms of punishment, such as time-outs, they are helping modify the child’s bad behavior in a calm manner.

Bad parenting in this regard comes in the form of failing to buffer the adverse affects of crisis that a child experiences, not teaching a child coping skills and not being responsive during a time of need. When a child has poor resilience, this can stem from a parent’s inflexibility, inability to handle change well or failure to cope with negative emotions in a healthy manner.

As children grow, they progress from total dependence during their first years of life to a higher degree of independence in their teenage years, when they start feeling the need to create their own identity. Parents may feel overly protective of their kids and want to control every aspect of their lives, fearing dangers such as drugs, alcohol, violence in schools, teenage pregnancies and pedophiles. Parents need to know the difference between being involved in their children’s lives and being overprotective

RESILIENCE:
Resilience refers to a person’s ability to cope with social, emotional, behavioral, physical and educational hardships. Parents with poor resilience are more likely to have children who also lack resilience, according to Joseph Rowntree Foundation. Bad parenting in this regard comes in the form of failing to buffer the adverse affects of crisis that a child experiences, not teaching a child coping skills and not being responsive during a time of need. When a child has poor resilience, this can stem from a parent’s inflexibility, inability to handle change well or failure to cope with negative emotions in a healthy manner.

What Are the Advantages & Disadvantages of Parent Involvement in the life of their Children

Advantage: Positive Relationships
Parental involvement at school can help build positive interactions between parents and kids, as well as parents and teachers. Parents will have a better idea of what their child’s day is like, which can improve family communication. Younger children are often excited to see their parents in a volunteer role, and it may help to give them a positive outlook on school. It can also build and improve the relationships between parents and teachers. The teacher can get a better understanding of individual family dynamics, cultural background and challenges a family faces as well as their strengths. Parents may develop a better understanding of the teacher’s expectations and the challenging dynamics that teacher may face in class. Getting to know each other can clear up such frustrations as the way a teacher handles discipline or why a parent is unhappy with the amount of homework being assigned to her child.

Disadvantage: Helicopter Parenting
Some parents take their involvement too far. They are at school so much that they become a source of distraction for their child, or their child’s classmates and teachers. It’s important to remember that school is a place of learning as well as a workplace. Teachers do not want to encounter parents having a loud conversation by the faculty lounge about another teacher they don’t like or to be placed in the awkward position of reprimanding a student who is not following instructions because he wants to talk to his mom. Being overly involved can lead to stepping in too frequently to deal with issues the child should handle. Also, not all teachers are comfortable with a parent volunteer in class. Some students are too distracted by the presence of their parents, which can cause a lack of focus or behavior problems. A parent can help the school without necessarily being in the room.

When it comes to dating and relationships, everyone has different expectations when it comes to the future. Some people choose to remain single, some get married, and some are in a romantic relationship for a long time, but have no intention of walking down the aisle. There are many reasons why some women don’t want to get married, and they range from wanting to focus on other things to simply just not wanting to be married.

In fact, according to the Pew Research Center, as of 2017, 42 percent of U.S. adults live without a spouse or partner, which is up from 39 percent as of 2007. And, also according to the 2017 stats, approximately six in ten adults younger than 35, 61 percent, live without a spouse or partner versus 56 percent from 10 years prior. So, unmarried people are far from alone, so to speak, and it seems to be a trend that’s becoming more and more popular.

Of course, when it comes to getting married, there’s no right or wrong answer since every person has to choose what’s best for them. “Statistically, more and more people are choosing to stay single,” Antonia Hall, psychologist, relationship expert, and author of The Ultimate Guide to a Multi-Orgasmic Life, tells Bustle. “For some, it is a conscious choice to not repeat negative experiences — their own and their parent’s failed relationships guiding the decision.” She adds that other reasons to stay unmarried include maintaining a sense of independence, freedom, and control over one’s one life and finances; a lack of desire to have children; and the lack of belief in “The One.”

“Overall, many people feel happy and satisfied with their unmarried status, so why change what’s working by complicating things,” Hall says.

Exactly — different women have different reasons for not wanting to tie the knot.

Below, women share why they don’t want to get married.

As someone who is both of Nigerian descent and a Christian, people tend to be totally shocked when I tell them that I don’t want to get married. Both of these cultures are extremely patriarchal and tend to judge a woman’s worth in terms of her relationship to men — with the role of wife and mother being seen as the ultimate crown of womanhood — and this is to the point of overshadowing whatever other amazing feats she may have achieved beforehand or even go on to do afterwards. As a result, I grew up witnessing multiple female role models either forfeit their dreams, stay in abusive relationships, or operate from a place of low self-worth due to these religious, cultural, and social constructs.

Because of this, marriage (or the idea that my worth, purpose, or happiness should be tied to a man) came to symbolize entrapment, restriction, and the loss of identity very early on in life. So, to quote Jessica Knoll (bestselling author of The Luckiest Girl Alive), ‘ever since I was a little girl, my fairy tale ending involved a pantsuit, not a wedding dress. Success meant doing something well enough to secure independence’ and, ultimately, my freedom.”

(U.S)— “I’ve grown up in a (regular) happy home, but with many friends who came from homes of divorce. Later, of course, I’ve seen many friends get cheated on or cheat on someone — so the idea of staying with one person forever, even through those situations, doesn’t make sense to me. However, I fully respect the idea of marriage for people who choose to honor it, but it just seems like a title and joke to me personally.

I almost got married a few years ago, but the idea of being tied down really got to me. I’m now very happy that it didn’t happen — I would have felt a bit shameful about getting married even though it wasn’t what I wanted. I also don’t plan to get married because of the cost, dress, venues, food/liquor, rings — it all just seems so frivolous for a ‘love commitment’ that I can’t buy into it.”

Angela Said : I don’t want to get married. I grew up as an only child, and have never really felt the need (or desire) for a partner. I have had relationships that rival your fave romance novel, and tragedies that Adele couldn’t fathom singing about, but at the end of the day, I’m always the most satisfied when I’m single. I’m also a digital nomad, and while I know plenty of nomad couples, I honestly think having another person in my life would simply get in the way.

Kalay : This year will mark nine years that I’ve been with my boyfriend. For context, I met him while I was a freshman in college (he lived in another city, and we were long-distance for about four years). He was my first and only serious boyfriend — we have no children, we are not religious, and we do not want children. Purchasing a house together this year has felt like our version of marriage or a wedding. In ways, it feels like a bigger deal and more of a milestone than getting married ever could.

Our situation is not a result of him ‘dragging his feet’ or a lack of commitment, which is a common assumption of those who don’t know us. If anything, I’ve ‘led the charge’ on proactively writing off the idea of a marriage. I think the confidence and independence I developed being in a long-distance relationship is part of the reason I (and he) don’t want to, nor feel compelled to, get married. We know each other so intimately, we trust each other whole-heartedly, and I’m confident that marriage wouldn’t catapult us into a new level of closeness or intimacy — I wouldn’t feel ‘safer’ or any more ‘taken care of’ by being married to him.”

As you can see, there are several reasons why some women prefer not to get married, and you may be able to relate to some of them. Whatever the case may be, only you know your reasons, and it’s best to honor them above all.

Peter Ayemoba, 50, of New Golden Prime Street, Rafin-Sanyi in the Suleja Local Government Area of Niger State was recently arrested by the state police command after a complaint by his relation that he was sleeping with his two daughters who are now 22 and 20 years old. He admits to ENYIOHA OPARA that he has been sleeping with his daughters since they were 15 and 13 years old respectively
You were arrested for sleeping with your daughters, for how long did that happen before your arrest?

I started sleeping with my daughters seven years ago; I lost my wife in 2013, a situation that made me to start sleeping with my daughters. The death of my wife got me confused that I don’t even know when I started sleeping with my daughters. In fact, I don’t know what came over me. After my wife’s burial, I started having a deep affection for my daughters; I would go to their room and play with them until it metamorphosed into having sexual intercourse with them on a regular basis.

I was sleeping with them separately but with their consent and it continued until I was arrested. Honestly, I cannot explain how I could do that to my own daughters but there was a spirit that kept on telling me that I wasn’t the first man that slept with his daughter, so I should not worry too much about it.

When my daughters rejected my overtures, I normally told them that I wanted to be closer to them since their mother was dead; and at times, I threatened to kill them and commit suicide if I didn’t sleep with them. One day, I referred them to the Bible passage about how Lot had sex with her daughters and was not punished by God. I told them intercourse between father and daughter was normal and in the Bible.

Were you having sexual intercourse with them for ritual purposes?

God knows I will never use my daughters or any of my children for ritual purposes; any father that does that is subhuman and evil. So, I will not do that. I am a father of six children – two daughters and four sons. I love them so much that I cannot harm them, let alone use them for rituals. The internal source of wisdom would never forgive me if I do that.

Just as I said, the death of my wife got me devastated to the point that I didn’t know what I was doing. What I suspect is that somebody must have placed a curse on me because what I did for seven years is not normal, to be frank. What I did after my wife died was to bond with my children and they became closer to me until gradually, I started sleeping with the girls, but it was not for ritual purposes.

Did you not marry after the death of your wife?

Yes, I got married few years after my wife died. My daughters forced me to remarry so I could satisfy my sexual urge because my actions were abominable.

Despite that, I still made love to them at the slightest opportunity or when my new wife was not at home. It went on like that until I was arrested by the police. It is quite unfortunate. Honestly, what is happening to me is not normal; I need to sort myself out, either physically or metaphysically so that I will have peace of mind.

Considering what you did to your daughters, do you see yourself as a responsible father?

It shows that I am an irresponsible father to the core. Do you know that people have been asking me if they are truly my biological daughters? I don’t know what made me have sex with my biological daughters for seven years repeatedly. I deserve any punishment meted out to me as far as this case is concerned. I suspect that somebody wants to destroy me.

How many times did your daughters abort your babies during the seven years?

Honestly, I don’t know. Moreover, I don’t follow them around. I’m surprise none of them conceived after several years of having sex with them. It beats my imagination but girls of these days are something else when it comes to that. Again, I’m really surprised; they might have been taking drugs in order not to put the family to shame.

Was your second wife aware that you were sleeping with your daughters?

She was not aware because it was a secret between me and my daughters. Nobody knew about it until it was reported to the police. Their stepmother did not bond with them; she was treating them like strangers and because of that, they were not close enough to discuss matters like this.

Now that your wife knows you were sleeping with your daughters, is she planning to divorce you?

Definitely, I need not be told that she will leave me. She was sharing me with my daughters; I don’t think she will accept that. I’m sure she would have moved out of the house by now. The worst offence you can commit against a woman is sleeping around, let alone sleep with your daughters. It is a mortal sin that would never be forgiven. I think I have insulted human race and I’m ruined.

Did your four boys know you were sleeping with their sisters?

My daughters are older than my sons but I don’t think they knew, otherwise they would have confronted me. As I said earlier, it was a secret between me and my daughters and now that they know, I’m sure they will not like to have anything to do with me again. I don’t think I will step into my house again; it was the work of the devil. I think I wrote a letter to the devil and he replied me by making me to sleep with my daughters. It is unbelievable.

Did you hypnotise your daughters so you could sleep with them at will?

No, I did not. I bonded with them for years and they believed what I told them about having sex with me so I could not have hypnotised them. They voluntarily and willingly accepted to be having sex with me anytime I demanded it. What baffles me is that over the years that we were having sex, we were happy, but all of a sudden, they reported the matter to a family member who brought us to where we are (police station). Maybe my cup was full so the law should take its course; I am ready for any eventualities.

Do you think your family and community will ever forgive you?

It is a difficult question to answer, but the truth of the matter is that I will be banished. I’m from Agenebode village in Etsako West Local Government Area of Edo State and I own a block industry in Suleja, Niger State. My people will kill me if I travel to my village; they will not accept me and they will not forgive me because what I have done is an abomination to the gods of our land. -PUNCH

By Sola Omoniyi Omoyajowo

Action proves who someone is, words just prove who they pretend to be…

It has never been recorded that mere words and promises kept a a relationship.

But action serves as a fertile land where LOVE and Marriage germinate.

If someone is really into you, you don’t have to keep begging for calls, text, or to spend time, the person will do it if you’re a priority.. It just flow naturally. Forced love is not love. If it takes only you to tango, then you’re in the wrong place. You can’t be in a relationship and be dating yourself. Love is a place of solace, not a place of hurt.

You struggle in a relationship, when purpose is fake..

Because every serious date will eliminate fear, doubt, confusion and stagnation…

You don’t remind a serious minded man ” when are you coming to see my parents, what are we doing or Where is the relationship leading us to?

No! When purpose is real; marriage becomes a priority.

The best thing to spend on your relationship is ” Time” If you can’t invest your time, you can’t grow your relationship.

When One Is Really Into You

~ Whosoever you’re begging for attention and care is not dating you.

~ If he/ she doesn’t invest time and attention, he/she doesn’t have plans for the future..

~ If his words does not correspond with his actions, he remains fake..

~ if the foundation is built on lies, such relationship can’t stand the test of time..

~ If there is no care/ giving, such relationship should be questioned..

~ If your zeal to build your relationship is taken for desperation…
( There is no future with the person)

• No matter how you pet a heart that’s not ready, you will remain a nagging woman..

~ If you’re begging for communication; you’re dating who is not dating you..

If you beg for love, you will also need constant begging to maintain it.

Be mindful of who you invest your time and resources on..

When someone treats you like an option, kindly remove yourself from the equation.

When someone is not into you, don’t force it to work. The wrong person will make you feel like you’re asking for too much. No matter how good your intentions are, the wrong person will always make you feel like you’re the problem. The wrong person will make you question your worth. The signs are always there, do not let emotions blind you. If the relationship is not working, don’t be the last person to leave.

Love is wise!!!

Who Do We Trust Again As Killer Of Uwa Confessed That He was Sent By A Pastor?

What is happening now in Nigeria is so heart wrenching as no one could be trusted. We have heard the story of a boyfriend who organized his gang to killed his girlfriend for ritualistic purpose.

Earlier this year a certain young man was set ablaze at Ibadan for killing his bosom friend for ritual purpose.

At Akure in a certain church called sotitobire, a little boy was killed for ritualistic purposes right in the church, Nigeria as turned to something else and everyone is now scared to trust somebody.

So was the story of a young Nigeria lady named Uwa, she was a student of microbiology at the University of Benin, about for days ago she was murdered in a church while she was reading.

Her death has caused great confusion in Benin-city, but due to the help of the Nigerian assiduous policemen who swung into action, the culprit was apprehended about a day ago.

What now jarred our sensibility about this case was that the culprit has confessed the person that sent him to kill the deceased, and we were amazed to know that it was the pastor of the church who sent him to do the evil act.

According to Peter Kalusky who happened to be a member of the Dss who arrested the culprit, said the culprit as confessed without hiding anything for them

Peter Kalusky, revealed that the suspect who he referred to as Chibuzor, has fingered the pastor, in connection with the crime.

Here’s the account of what Peter Kalusky tweeted;

“He Said the Pastor Paid him to Do it. We Suspect the Pastor wanted to make his Church Famous. We suspect the Pastor wanted his Church to Trend. The Pastor set young Girl up. Police are going to pick the Pastor up, Federal Government will take over the Church building soon.

“Miss Uwa, may she Rest In Peace was clearly set up. Chibuozor said he was offered N1 Million last two weeks, but then the money was later increased to #1.5m”

Now that the secret has been revealed who are we to trust?

The pastors are not to trust again as all sorts of evil are found in their hands.

Most prison in Nigeria now is full of criminals in which Muslims marabouts and pastors are half of the inmates because they are have been involved in one crime or the other.

Who do we trust in Nigerians?

It has now become a problem for you to carry your problems to your pastor because he will never give you the best advice.

Many marriages have scattered because of the evil influences of the evil pastors out there.

I know God will make Nigeria great but all these evil pastors should not go scot-free Nigeria Government should also stop to jail them, whoever kills should be killed in return.

Kola Olawuyi, The Investigative Journalist Who Exposed Reverend King

Today, I remember and pay tribute to Kola Olawuyi, one of the best investigative journalists that lived in this country and a figure that loomed large when I was growing up.

When Kola Olawuyi died in 2007 at the age of 44, I knew quite a few people that shed tears. My mother was one of them. The man once ruled the airwaves with his Iriri Aye radio program that I grew up to.

When it’s 8pm on Fridays in the South West, it’s normal to see a lot of people huddled up around radio sets in street corners, homes and electricians’ workshops as they listened to Kola Olawuyi’s program. It was a weekly ritual we grew up to.

Kola Olawuyi was larger than life. The number of cases he tracked down and brought to life have not been done by anyone else around here since his death.

No one has had that kind of confidence since. Reverend King’s case was brought to light by him. Churches whose owners buried people alive in their buildings as rituals to draw crowd.

A lot of cases of abused children and people claiming to be witches to hurt others. Aja ile (underground killing houses) stories where kidnappers’ dens were raided by him and brought to light.

Blood ritual killings and ritualists in the south west. Heck, there was a woman called Malaika that said she was God and created everyone and could do what she liked with anyone until Kola Olawuyi dragged her to light, and more.

The man was fearless and appeared unstoppable. Listening to him was scary and exciting.

On one hand you admired his courage. On the other, you feared for his life. It wasn’t surprising then that when he died, a lot of people’s default setting was “Oh, they got him finally.”

Perhaps even he had that thought at the back of his mind, hence, at the end of every show, he’d always say: “Aa ma be obe nii besu, atelese a bena wo. Eni ba ni a ma bo nikan lawa o ni de ba nle” (loosely translated: we’ll always go out to work. It’s those that don’t want us to return that we won’t meet when we return).

His life was a mystery too. Even though he was a member of the Redeemed Church, the number of occultic cases and ritual killers he too

By

Sola Omoniyi Omoyajowo

This might be a little cozy, but I have a feeling a lot of people out here needs to hear this;
When you meet a soulmate, you don’t need anyone to convince you that true love exist.

However, if you want to experience true love, don’t Lean on emotions and words rather face reality.

It takes a strong person to keep a long distant relationship, a strong, disciplined and sold out to Jesus person, because this ministry is not for babies at all, there are just too many selfless sacrifices to be made. But before I go further I want you to know that Distance isn’t a big factor in a relationship, communication is. But most of all, commitment is the most important one.

For instance, you cannot be in a long distant relationship and lack the spirit of communication, unless you just want to waste your time and the precious time of your partner, valuable time that you both would have used to learn entrepreneurship skills 😀.

Communication is everything over the miles. It is the real definition of love in a long distant relationship. You must love talking by force. You must love calling. You must love texting. Simply put, you’ve got to be baptized in the art of calling, texting and chatting, else the relationship cannot be sustained. Right next to this is also the spirit of listening. And this is even the difficult part. Since you cannot see each other face to face to read body language and observe their expressions, you have to be gifted in reading between the lines of their every word, carefully paying attention to the full stops and commas, pauses and breaks, including the ability to descern when something is bothering them and when they need more attention. Boyy it’s a difficult job, to fully understand and relate with another person through the thin threads of a telephone.

But more importantly, you need the annointing of patience and discipline in other for you two to pull it through…

Some nights you are going to need trust to love your partner the next day.

Some nights you are going to need self discipline to stay faithful the next day.

Some nights you are going to need a whole lot of patience to keep starving yourself in other to stay committed the next day. I know here you understand what I mean. A whole lot of patience to say no to a harmless happy hour.

Then, the boss of them all, you are going to need to make a lot of financial commitments. It is not a choice, this one is compulsory. Whoever said that love don’t cost a thing had no idea what he was talking about. “For God so love the world that He GAVE …” You have to really be a giver;
Your time,
energy,
Mental resource,
Prayers,
money,
money,
Money,
More money,
And again I say, money.

The calls and text messages are not going to take care of itself, would it? You’ve got to buy airtime credits, and stay talking on the phone for long. Normally you will feel no pressure when your data subscription expires, but when you have a baby, you cannot be comfortable without data for a day, cos you know how much social media helps you two stay in touch. The sacrifices required in a distant relationship are not for babes, you just know you cannot invest this much on something you are not ready to see through to marriage.

How about giftings? Father Christmas will not send him gifts for you. You have to save up to put up love suprises for your partner. Depriving yourself of your pleasures, to make sure you do what you have to do.

Did I mention how extremely creative you have to be with your romance? You know you cannot say I love you the same way you said it last month? In fact, you can both be calling each other and talking on the phone everyday for hours and still not be communicating anything. This ship is just so, hmmm, halleluyah.

Lastly, I want you to know that it is not distance that break relationship. It is not distance that make partners cheat. It is lack of emotional maturity, commitment and discipline. Every relationship is a risk, no one knows the one that will be successful but two committed partners can share one umbrella and weather the storm together.
This is my take!